Cat23 wrote:
Don’t get me wrong I don’t think he’s great or anything but as for calling the police he hasn’t been violent towards u or anything I just think ur over reacting.
No, she's not overreacting. He's stalking her. If she lets him get away with that, it will very likely turn into either physical or emotional abuse or both. He's already very manipulative.
You can't just sit and wait for a situation to become abusive and then call the police - at that point, the damage is already done, you've got some trauma in your life, and it will be much harder to be rid of the guy.
I'm not saying that it's necessary to involve the police, at this point, but certainly the OP should not respond to any attempts to contact her
at all.
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