I saw my mom get severely beaten by my father when I was very young, so it upsets me when I read about women getting physically abused? Want to know why your post upset me? Because you were physically abused! Want to know why he's not allowed to talk to you? Because you were physically abused?
Want to know why you are calling him "The Creep"? Because you know you shouldn't see him. The real question is, why would you consider being with somebody who was abusive towards you? I'd likely be because you have low self esteem. Doesn't make you a bad person or anything, just something you're suffering from. Don't think of a man as a ticket to eliminate boredom or to improve your lifestyle and get material possessions.
Think of a man as somebody who will love and protect you. Think of a man as somebody who's maybe a lot bigger than you and has a lot of muscles, but only so he can beat the crap out of a burglar and protect you if it comes to that. You should be able to trust your man, and know he's there for you. Don't look for perfection, isn't going to happen; but you deserve a real relationship with a man, not possessions and drama.