https://www.onlineassessmenttool.com/in ... anguage=en
Here's me (40% passive, 40% aloof, 20% stilted, 0% active but odd). Which I don't agree with. I'd say 75% passive, 25% active but odd. I don't speak up in social interactions, even with my own household, very often. Mostly I say things like "I'll be happy to" and "Sure" and "Good idea!" and go-along-to-get-along type stuff like that. I come HERE to be opinionated and outspoken and say exactly what I think and feel. Which I guess makes me a troll, IDK.
Sometimes, I want to be heard. I have questions, I have opinions, I have something I need to say. And when I do, I usually say something weird. I have some really good friends that I keep for years and years and years (usually until they crack from not dealing with their issues and end up doing something I can't tolerate, like calling me at work to cuss me out for being at work instead of at their service or staging a suicide attempt, trying to seduce my husband, and then trying to accuse him of trying to take advantage of them-- yes, I stood there and watched both of those things happen). I don't have "social friends" or "acquaintances" or whatever the nice people are calling them these days.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"