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Gela
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Joined: 22 Sep 2014
Age: 53
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Location: USA

13 Oct 2017, 6:09 pm

League_Girl wrote:
My question is if your husband thinks you have gotten worse and if he disagrees with things you do have anything to do with Asperger's.

I deal with that with my mother.


I don't think he thinks I am worse in any way. I'm not sure I could get worse in his mind. I think he agrees that I am speaking from a place of knowledge and authority, but refuses to validate, empathize, or engage with me from the perspective that I have neurology that results in certain behaviors (I suppose everyone does). My opinion is that if we were both in agreement with this then we could better work with recurring things that come up. I don't much care if he calls it Aspie or not. It's just convenient.

Sorry you deal with that with your mother.