hurtloam wrote:
I am making an effort to be friendly with new people. I'm having folks over tomorrow night. Mostly single people.
You are going to try to withdraw halfway in and people are going to s**t on you for it. Also your going to feel like an idiot because you brought all these people over and you have no idea how to talk to them.
You will probably increase your social endurance or learn some strategies from this event.
Here is my suggestion. Prepare social traps. Get board games, drinks etc. Make sure you leave on a television. If you can cook, try cooking while they are over. It's an excuse, it will pass time and probably will help you regain a little bit of ground.
You probably don't want any of the people you just invited over for a relationship. Typically it's better to go one on one when socializing with all a spur. Ever. Also your choice in friends.... You just invited a bunch of people that are social.... They will have expectations of you based on this event and based on how you selected them. You invited a whole bunch of people. That doesn't mean anything to a friend. You only conformed. Good friends are picked individually.
If you want a male to date I posted in a thread. Just don't bite my head off lol. I'm not into preying mantis relationships.
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