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18 Nov 2017, 1:30 am

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There are plenty of women who would love to quit their jobs to become stay at home soccer moms living in a single family three or four bedroom home in a nice neighborhood with a good school system.


That is such rubbish what sort of person would choose not to work? Female or male. All they would have is their husband’s merits to live off how boring sooooo boring.

Woman “when are u coming home?”
Man “I’m working”
Woman “but when are u coming home!”
Man clenches fits goes a slow purple red colour “I’m working, you know what puts food on the table”
Woman “fine”, sulks, “why don’t u love me?”
Man “I’m working, I’m f’ing working u stupid bztch”
Woman “why are u getting so mad”
Man “I’m working, I’m working, I’m working (hear the table getting hit with the fist)
Woman “fine!! ! !”
Hangs up. Man takes 20 mins to get back to what he was working on, which would have only taken 5 more minutes to do.
Woman googles why husband doesn’t love her for 3 days
So yes get a soccer mon




^ Check Catherine Hakim’s studies.



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18 Nov 2017, 1:49 am

I shall read and come back



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18 Nov 2017, 1:59 am

Cat23 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
There are plenty of women who would love to quit their jobs to become stay at home soccer moms living in a single family three or four bedroom home in a nice neighborhood with a good school system.


That is such rubbish what sort of person would choose not to work? Female or male. All they would have is their husband’s merits to live off how boring sooooo boring.


Yes it's boring but some people don't want to work. I've spoken to girls who said they wanted a man to support them. I'm not saying they're in the majority.

Work can be pretty boring too. Work can be hard and stressful. There are certainly people who would choose not to work, both male and female.

Personally I choose to work not because I think it's fun but because I like the challenge and because unemployment used to kill my self-esteem.

Cat23 wrote:
Woman “when are u coming home?”
Man “I’m working”
Woman “but when are u coming home!”
Man clenches fits goes a slow purple red colour “I’m working, you know what puts food on the table”
Woman “fine”, sulks, “why don’t u love me?”
Man “I’m working, I’m f’ing working u stupid bztch”
Woman “why are u getting so mad”
Man “I’m working, I’m working, I’m working (hear the table getting hit with the fist)
Woman “fine!! ! !”
Hangs up. Man takes 20 mins to get back to what he was working on, which would have only taken 5 more minutes to do.
Woman googles why husband doesn’t love her for 3 days
So yes get a soccer mon

I know single income couples but I've never heard a conversation like that! That sounds like a ridiculous scenario. Obviously the woman would understand why her partner won't be at home from nine to five.


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18 Nov 2017, 2:58 am

NamelessNinja42 wrote:
How Can I Tell My Girlfriend She Is Fat?


How about you don't...

If you can see past her weight, this relationship is not lasting.



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18 Nov 2017, 4:23 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
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BTDT wrote:
There are plenty of women who would love to quit their jobs to become stay at home soccer moms living in a single family three or four bedroom home in a nice neighborhood with a good school system.


That is such rubbish what sort of person would choose not to work? Female or male. All they would have is their husband’s merits to live off how boring sooooo boring.


Yes it's boring but some people don't want to work. I've spoken to girls who said they wanted a man to support them. I'm not saying they're in the majority.

Work can be pretty boring too. Work can be hard and stressful. There are certainly people who would choose not to work, both male and female.

Personally I choose to work not because I think it's fun but because I like the challenge and because unemployment used to kill my self-esteem.

Cat23 wrote:
Woman “when are u coming home?”
Man “I’m working”
Woman “but when are u coming home!”
Man clenches fits goes a slow purple red colour “I’m working, you know what puts food on the table”
Woman “fine”, sulks, “why don’t u love me?”
Man “I’m working, I’m f’ing working u stupid bztch”
Woman “why are u getting so mad”
Man “I’m working, I’m working, I’m working (hear the table getting hit with the fist)
Woman “fine!! ! !”
Hangs up. Man takes 20 mins to get back to what he was working on, which would have only taken 5 more minutes to do.
Woman googles why husband doesn’t love her for 3 days
So yes get a soccer mon

I know single income couples but I've never heard a conversation like that! That sounds like a ridiculous scenario. Obviously the woman would understand why her partner won't be at home from nine to five.


Sydney has a lot of pressure atm I don’t know anyone working 9-5 maybe 8-7 but add an hr commute it’s bad here



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18 Nov 2017, 4:30 am

Cat23 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Cat23 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
There are plenty of women who would love to quit their jobs to become stay at home soccer moms living in a single family three or four bedroom home in a nice neighborhood with a good school system.


That is such rubbish what sort of person would choose not to work? Female or male. All they would have is their husband’s merits to live off how boring sooooo boring.


Yes it's boring but some people don't want to work. I've spoken to girls who said they wanted a man to support them. I'm not saying they're in the majority.

Work can be pretty boring too. Work can be hard and stressful. There are certainly people who would choose not to work, both male and female.

Personally I choose to work not because I think it's fun but because I like the challenge and because unemployment used to kill my self-esteem.

Cat23 wrote:
Woman “when are u coming home?”
Man “I’m working”
Woman “but when are u coming home!”
Man clenches fits goes a slow purple red colour “I’m working, you know what puts food on the table”
Woman “fine”, sulks, “why don’t u love me?”
Man “I’m working, I’m f’ing working u stupid bztch”
Woman “why are u getting so mad”
Man “I’m working, I’m working, I’m working (hear the table getting hit with the fist)
Woman “fine!! ! !”
Hangs up. Man takes 20 mins to get back to what he was working on, which would have only taken 5 more minutes to do.
Woman googles why husband doesn’t love her for 3 days
So yes get a soccer mon

I know single income couples but I've never heard a conversation like that! That sounds like a ridiculous scenario. Obviously the woman would understand why her partner won't be at home from nine to five.


Sydney has a lot of pressure atm I don’t know anyone working 9-5 maybe 8-7 but add an hr commute it’s bad here
In some cases the women would have a man on the side like in this song :arrow:


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18 Nov 2017, 4:38 am

Choosing not to be self sufficient isn’t an option for a lot of people. Being a hard worker who sees the weekend as a reward, I don’t get these people. It’s nice to feel you do something rather than exist, especially on money that’s not your own. I would feel guilty even accepting government money if I worked part time, but a lot of it has to do with my family’s opinion and the opinions of the people who they get around with.



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18 Nov 2017, 7:44 pm

[quote="hale_bopp"]. It’s nice to feel you do something rather than exist,

I couldn’t agree more! Absolutely positively must suck up as much of life as possible. There was a guy giving blood yesterday who was definitely on the spectrum giving plasma no less (we don’t get paid in Aus) and I was looking at him thinking wow he is contributing in a way most guys wouldn’t even think to. Definitely inspired :D



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18 Nov 2017, 7:46 pm

Nic is this ur crush :oops:



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19 Nov 2017, 12:35 am

I'd rather be fat than f****d.


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19 Nov 2017, 12:44 am

Cat23 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Cat23 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
There are plenty of women who would love to quit their jobs to become stay at home soccer moms living in a single family three or four bedroom home in a nice neighborhood with a good school system.


That is such rubbish what sort of person would choose not to work? Female or male. All they would have is their husband’s merits to live off how boring sooooo boring.


Yes it's boring but some people don't want to work. I've spoken to girls who said they wanted a man to support them. I'm not saying they're in the majority.

Work can be pretty boring too. Work can be hard and stressful. There are certainly people who would choose not to work, both male and female.

Personally I choose to work not because I think it's fun but because I like the challenge and because unemployment used to kill my self-esteem.

Cat23 wrote:
Woman “when are u coming home?”
Man “I’m working”
Woman “but when are u coming home!”
Man clenches fits goes a slow purple red colour “I’m working, you know what puts food on the table”
Woman “fine”, sulks, “why don’t u love me?”
Man “I’m working, I’m f’ing working u stupid bztch”
Woman “why are u getting so mad”
Man “I’m working, I’m working, I’m working (hear the table getting hit with the fist)
Woman “fine!! ! !”
Hangs up. Man takes 20 mins to get back to what he was working on, which would have only taken 5 more minutes to do.
Woman googles why husband doesn’t love her for 3 days
So yes get a soccer mon

I know single income couples but I've never heard a conversation like that! That sounds like a ridiculous scenario. Obviously the woman would understand why her partner won't be at home from nine to five.


Sydney has a lot of pressure atm I don’t know anyone working 9-5 maybe 8-7 but add an hr commute it’s bad here

Good thing I don't live in Sydney, except for a few senior staff most people in my office are there for 7.5 hours of flex time (some work 7-3, some work 10-6, etc). I did overtime today but that's a rare event and I got paid 1.5 times my normal wage. Also my commute is a 5 minute walk to the train station, a 15 or 20 minute long train ride followed by a 5 minute walk to the office.

Adelaide is a rather sedate place. What happened to put Sydneysiders under so much pressure?


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19 Nov 2017, 1:01 am

RetroGamer it sounds heavenly! The problem is on my side of the bridge the Chinese funnelled their money out of China into property I have a young friend (27yr old) and she has 7 properties (money came from her father in China who had a string of medical centres). It’s good and bad because jobs are a bit better paid here but property prices are insane $1.3- $1.4 for a 50 year old house on a massive slope if ur lucky. The problem is if u are out of work for even a short time u lose ur house but then eventually ur not living week to week but u are so used to working long hours and kitchentabiling it that it becomes expected and everything suffers from relationships to health to sanity.

But in Sydney u could not make eye contact ur whole day and no one would notice they’d probably think ur a weirdo if u tried to talk to them.

I believe u have a giant battery coming to SA don’t u?



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19 Nov 2017, 1:43 am

I guess I took the 8 hour work day for granted. Not everyone has the luxury of only working 8 hours per day. Still, if you guys are working 8-7 it makes me wonder why NSW still celebrates Labour Day.

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I believe u have a giant battery coming to SA don’t u?

That's what the newspaper said but I haven't heard any updates on that recently.


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19 Nov 2017, 2:41 am

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Choosing not to be self sufficient isn’t an option for a lot of people. Being a hard worker who sees the weekend as a reward, I don’t get these people. It’s nice to feel you do something rather than exist, especially on money that’s not your own. I would feel guilty even accepting government money if I worked part time, but a lot of it has to do with my family’s opinion and the opinions of the people who they get around with.

Where’d this come from?

Is the government money and part time work directed at me?
I do feel guilty and thst I should die. But most can’t work full,time. I contribute best I can.



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19 Nov 2017, 3:57 am

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hale_bopp wrote:
Choosing not to be self sufficient isn’t an option for a lot of people. Being a hard worker who sees the weekend as a reward, I don’t get these people. It’s nice to feel you do something rather than exist, especially on money that’s not your own. I would feel guilty even accepting government money if I worked part time, but a lot of it has to do with my family’s opinion and the opinions of the people who they get around with.

Where’d this come from?

Is the government money and part time work directed at me?
I do feel guilty and thst I should die. But most can’t work full,time. I contribute best I can.

Don't you mean some can't work fulltime?


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19 Nov 2017, 6:10 am

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Nic is this ur crush :oops:
No. My crush is the iCarly star, Miranda Cosgrove :heart: :hic:


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