hurtloam wrote:
Seriously. I give up. Just find something else to focus your attention on. Not every one can find 'love' whatever the hell that's meant to be.
That is what I did for a bit, after realizing my desire for a relationship was contributing to allowing myself to be led on and such. Basically I was kinda desperate for one so rather than really obeserving the situation and making sure me and the guys I met with were on the same page I'd just jump in, be willing to have sex right away and well it led to getting led on and ghosted. So I took a break, I didn't tell myself 'it can never happen' but yeah at least for me it helped to focus on other things for a while...as well as working to improve my mental health.
I cannot guarantee anything, but sometimes if you're throwing all of yourself into one thing, and its not working out...perhaps its a good idea to switch it up and focus on something else for a while.
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