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18 Nov 2017, 1:07 am

Surprised I made another Mature Life Video? Yeah so am I :) This Mature Virgin Life Video had to be made as serious reoccurring life issues need to be addressed :x

Look at that soothing smile :) We will be victorious in Life. Negativity will lose. I respect Woman, I see them as Human Beings just like us Men :)

I want to clear the confusion of Lust. There is a whole lot of misconceptions about Lust. There can be Lust for food, Lust for Bullying not just Lust for sex. Having Consent will solve a lot of issues in Life :)


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18 Nov 2017, 1:58 am

Well your just hitting on some hard topics...

So I will too...

Lusting for molestation? What about lusting on your own personal past molestation?

Yeah I get it, its not healthy, but hard topics. Thoughts?



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18 Nov 2017, 10:24 pm

Its taking a lot of self discipline for me to avoid watching adult movies. Me personally at this point in my life I don't want to get caught up in Lust. I want to feel Love instead of lust


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18 Nov 2017, 10:32 pm

I am doing pretty good in that area...

Well I mean R rated is kinda meh

But if we'll talking about pornography. I haven't seen any in a while, don't have any desire to view any.

I think... I don't know what I do these days, others could probably tell you more, but I don't think I have seen porn lately.

Adult stuff in terms of rap and games and maybe some oddly satisfying youtube videos... probably not so good in that area.



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19 Nov 2017, 1:40 am

I don't want to view woman as sex objects. That's why I feel guilty lusting woman :(


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19 Nov 2017, 10:12 am

I never really felt like I did... Really...

I really only had one girl friend I really related too and it didn't last, she thought I disrespected her but I actually didn't mean to.

So I probably did and have no idea I did... Seems to be a growing trend with me...

Ironically enough I miss her :-(

And the relationship was pretty shallow :-(

Not that I wanted it to be but I didn't know how for it not to be shallow but it was based around psychical intimacy but that did not imply I viewed her as an object. I just have no idea how to invite company.

Except they... I pretty good at inviting they... I would like to keep that relationship as shallow as possible actually lulz



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19 Nov 2017, 1:32 pm

In Life, I feel like the enemy (demons) is taking over my mind with lust :(


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19 Nov 2017, 1:39 pm

techlife95 wrote:
In Life, I feel like the enemy (demons) is taking over my mind with lust :(


I don't feel this way.

I did over masturbation but everyone says its okay.

I guess I am lusting over death right now.

That might be a different problem, I don't know.

Maybe your talking life a bit too seriously here, maybe you need to lose your virginity here. Just a thought.



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19 Nov 2017, 4:35 pm

I am getting so livid at all these sexual crimes going on in the world :mad: There needs to be frickin Consent in Life!! !


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19 Nov 2017, 4:40 pm

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I am getting so livid at all these sexual crimes going on in the world :mad: There needs to be frickin Consent in Life!! !


Well I am too actually and then suddenly everyone started victim blaming me.

So I am kinda livid about that and I don't get anyone asking me for consent ruin my life.

Politics are probably worse then sex crimes you want to know the truth...



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20 Nov 2017, 11:22 pm

RAINN Anti Rape organization. I will volunteer in an advocacy group to end sexual crimes once and for all!


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20 Nov 2017, 11:32 pm

I'll probably watch your videos some other time. They look pretty long. I'm battling with lust too. The most important thing you can do to overcome your battles with lust is to give zero attention to it. Lust is a normal part of your human body, and you can't destroy your body. Lust most of all happens when we are in our heads thinking too hard or when we feel we are in love. Fire in the heart sends smoke into the head.

Let go. God wants you to focus on your path.



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20 Nov 2017, 11:48 pm

ZachGoodwin wrote:
I'll probably watch your videos some other time. They look pretty long. I'm battling with lust too. The most important thing you can do to overcome your battles with lust is to give zero attention to it. Lust is a normal part of your human body, and you can't destroy your body. Lust most of all happens when we are in our heads thinking too hard or when we feel we are in love. Fire in the heart sends smoke into the head.

Let go. God wants you to focus on your path.



Finally someone can relate with me dealing with battles of Lust in Life :)


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21 Nov 2017, 3:54 am

It's not easy to think positive in this unfair life.


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22 Nov 2017, 1:16 am

I write positive things in my journal such as what I am grateful for in my life :)


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22 Nov 2017, 11:30 am

I view Lust as Demons. Always have Consent in Life. Lust is not bad with consent.


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