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xxZeromancerlovexx
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18 Nov 2017, 8:55 pm

What kind of hair texture and color do you find most attractive?

This is my natural texture and color.
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I've gotten made fun of because of my hair. It makes me feel masculine.


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18 Nov 2017, 9:24 pm

I find curly, red (natural) hair to be most attractive.

Why do you think that your hair makes you look masculine? It doesn’t.



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19 Nov 2017, 1:38 am

I don't see anything wrong with your hair in that picture, what about it do people make fun of? This may not apply but if its overly greasy then you could try to use less conditioner, when you wash it like maybe once a month as opposed to every time you wash it. I have that issue with my hair and certainly got unkind comments about it in the past. I've had my hair dreaded though so now I don't use conditioner ever as it can make it harder for the dreads to remain intact and residue free.


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19 Nov 2017, 2:14 am

I'm also a big fan of red and curly hair.

My own is blonde and straight and extremely messy. I brush it two times per day, but it's in fluffy knots five minutes later. My nickname is "troll".

I see nothing wrong with your hair either. Waves/curls are nice :)



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20 Nov 2017, 9:52 am

Whoever makes fun of your hair is dumb. I think you have a heavy metal vibe to your hair and I like that. :wink:



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20 Nov 2017, 10:00 am

I'm not a hair expert, but your hair looks completely normal.



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20 Nov 2017, 10:18 am

Your hair actually wouldn't get many comments in the Bible Belt because women are expected to have long hair. Women with short hair, unless it's bunned up, are considered "dykes" here and it's stupid.



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20 Nov 2017, 10:35 am

I think your hair is very nice. People who have very "feminine" hair in modern society usually work at it. I had very thick long hair until I was in my 30's. I could never understand why It wasn't like some of the other girls that I was jealous of.
Your hair looks thick and wavy. Many are jealous of this type of hair. It is harder to do things with sometimes though, I found. I never bothered to figure out how to do mine nicely, just down or in a ponytail. I was not a priority.
I finally decided to cut mine off and eventually into a very short pixy cut. I find that I look much more confident instead of hiding behind my long un-styled hair. I try too keep my eyebrows done so it doesn't look too masculine. I find it changes how my entire face looks and makes me look more feminine. This is hard for me to keep up on too but that's a whole different thing. I'm still a mess with poofy hair much of the time.
This isn't a suggestion, not saying to give up on your hair, it really is very nice. I miss my long hair often, just to much work to get back there and can't have it both ways.
Do you spend time on it, or just brush it an leave it as it is?



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20 Nov 2017, 11:05 am

Hair colour/length I don't really have a preference, but I prefer a style which is not too fancy.

I definitely don't like too much hairspray/gel etc. I prefer to be able to run my fingers through a partner's hair when kissing them, rather than getting all gummed up in their hair care products and accidentally pulling their hair out in the middle of an intimate moment!

I also find most of those products have too much of an overpowering smell very often. My Mum used to do some hairdressing from home back in the 80's when perm's were really popular, and I used to dread the horrible "cat wee" smell of the chemicals.


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21 Nov 2017, 6:19 am

I have some color blindness & don't really care about hair color as long as it's natural looking. I'm not that picky about style as long as it's a female style(like longer than a buzz cut). I do like pigtails but it's not a preference except in porn & in the bedroom. I don't even know what hair texture is. I think your hair looks alright OP.


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21 Nov 2017, 10:01 am

I see nothing 'masculine' in your hair.



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21 Nov 2017, 10:06 am

It's not that your hair is masculine, but that those guys' hair are effeminate.
Nothing wrong with your hair. :afro:


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21 Nov 2017, 10:53 am

It's the kind of hair that men enjoy stroking.....



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21 Nov 2017, 3:15 pm

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I've gotten made fun of because of my hair. It makes me feel masculine.


Do people make fun of it often? or is this a one time or specific person thing? I would say most people have been made fun of about their hair at least a few times. Hair can be funny. It could also be a bully looking for something to pick on you about if they see you as different or vulnerable.



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25 Nov 2017, 7:45 am

I like really soft hair that doesn't tangle easily. I prefer long hair on a girl, but I've never had a preference for color.


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