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What sort of person do you aspire to be like?
An "Alpha Male" 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
A "Nice guy" 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
The sort of person who just sort of exists and is mostly invisible to other people (few friends/a loner) 40%  40%  [ 2 ]
Someone who intimidates others, but subsequently has no friends (avoided by others) 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Someone who makes others comfortable with their presence (liked by many, but still not really the "top dog") 60%  60%  [ 3 ]
Total votes : 5

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21 Nov 2017, 3:33 pm

It applies to girls too.

If I had to pick an option, it would be someone who makes other people comfortable with their presence, but at the same time is sort of reserved. I think we all know someone like that in our lives, you don't look down on them but you aren't really afraid of them either.


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21 Nov 2017, 7:53 pm

It was a tough choice between The sort of person who just sort of exists and is mostly invisible to other people (few friends/a loner), A "Nice guy". & Someone who makes others comfortable with their presence (liked by many, but still not really the "top dog"). But I choice The sort of person who just sort of exists.


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21 Nov 2017, 8:37 pm

I picked

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The sort of person who just sort of exists and is mostly invisible to other people (few friends/a loner)

because I just wanna be left alone and do my own stuff.

I was tempted by this one too though:
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Someone who intimidates others, but subsequently has no friends (avoided by others)

In order to avoid both people deciding that I need them in my life and to avoid negative attention


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21 Nov 2017, 8:59 pm

A beta male ;)


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26 Nov 2017, 6:36 am

I am already "the sort of person who just sort of exists and is mostly invisible to other people", but I want to be "someone who makes others comfortable with their presence."


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