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rochellegivens1
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Joined: 2 Dec 2017
Gender: Female
Posts: 3
Location: Calalini

02 Dec 2017, 12:32 pm

How do I stop wanting friends? I know I can’t make any no matter how hard I try, so I lover people talk to me first. If they do, then it leaves me in disappointment because they stop being my friend most of the time. They always listen to their friends that say “If you keep talking to her, I’ll stop talking to you” or they hear rumors about me that the whole school knows and they hate me completely. I love being alone more often, but how do I stop wanting friends and feeling sometimes lonely? Also, how do I be more aggressive to people and show I don’t like them and to leave me alone?



Masakados
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Joined: 18 Jun 2017
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Posts: 211

02 Dec 2017, 4:26 pm

It's normal to want friends.
If you're in highschool you probably don't NEED them but it's understandable to still want. NTs are mean though. People here will be your friend.



kraftiekortie
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Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

04 Dec 2017, 11:49 am

I had virtually no friends throughout my high school "career."



ammeavid
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Joined: 29 May 2017
Gender: Female
Posts: 44
Location: New Jersey, United States

15 Dec 2017, 4:22 pm

No matter what you do, you're always going to want to have friends. If it's that hard for you to make friends in school, I would turn to other places where you can behave socially. I've found that online friends are much easier to make. Even trying to become friends with people on here might be a good starting point.