February 6th

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"RainbowUnion"]Sorry, must have missed it in a poorly typed rambling rant somewhere...[/quote]

Last edited by ASS-P on 23 Feb 2018, 6:19 pm, edited 1 time in total.

ASS-P is....ASS-P.

He doesn't respond to direct criticism. I don't think he trusts it. This might be because of what he's experienced in his life.

The best thing to do in his situation is to help him with practical things. Yes, do call him out if he gets nasty. But the emphasis should be on encouraging him, rather than criticizing him.

I think his bad typing is (mostly) caused by the lousy equipment he uses, plus (perhaps) the speed of his typing, combined with the fact that he has to type something in a certain time in order for it not to be "lost."

This is a very Maslow type of situation. He has to get his basic needs met----before we can address needs "higher up" on the Maslow Pyramid.

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Please refrain from mocking or bullying ASS-P. I would like to see you guys survive on the streets without a home. It is already hard enough for many autists to live independently when they can.

ASS-P's been f****d 8 ways from Sunday in this life. Not all of his problems are his own doing. Far from it. Think about how he communicates with people here on this forum.. do you really think he has an abundance of friends in real life to chat with? To vent to? to get any kind of guidance from? Not likely. This place is one of his only connections to anything & anyone, so we tolerate his ASS-P ways because WP is good for him.

I feel like ASS-P can be a most amiable fellow when hanging out with fellow comic book enthusiasts.

But apparently not here on WP.

My posts today have been in DEFENCE of his rudeness towards me, yet I just received a message with a "board warning" for "bothering ASS-P."

Bizarre!

I don't believe ASS-P bears grudges against individual people, really.

He might get upset with them for a little while---then the grudge goes away.

Just "hang out" with him more. I think he'd appreciate it.

If he tries to recruit you to send him stuff or something, just say "no."

He's not the appreciative sort, really. I've offered him help at my time and expense and he's stated in this thread that he doesn't trust me, as if I've done anything to prove I'm untrustworthy. I was also very clear in pointing out that it'd be impossible for me to give his lawyer contact any negative instructions of what to do with ASS-P's inherited photos because no lawyer is going to throw out items w/o the express consent of the person involved. But he's paranoid and, well, ASS-P, so for some reason he thinks I have ill will against him and would communicate something different to the lawyer than I've stated. Meanwhile, I've been transparent about exactly what I'd say on ASS-P's behalf with his approval and consent.

I know what you mean.

He's gotten mad at me, too.

Probably the best thing is to let him cool off for a while.

ASS-P's very screen name is a satirical one, making fun of his own Aspie status.

The moderation here is very hypocritical. Ass P makes these threads all about HIMSELF, and when people respond they get in trouble.

^ If you respond in a negative, critical manner in The Haven, you will get in trouble.

Interesting. Then why have I been scolded by mods for offering encouragement, advice, and help?

^ Because you're being obnoxious and unhelpful about it, and it's pissing people off.

I tried talking to you as a forum member to get you to lay-off, but it became necessary to hit you over the head with a frying pan.

Myself and the rest of the moderation team suspects you have some rather significant TOM issues, but we can't let you run about like a bull in a china shop.

Didn't another moderator in this thread post that it was against forum rules to diagnose other forum members with anything? Also interesting.