Oh guys, this just breaks my heart.
Neither of you is in ANY WAY like that spoiled, destructive brat.
The fact that you are each alone at the moment, and in pain because of it? Even there you are different from him. You each have big hearts, and a lot to give, and you hurt because you don't have anyone to give to... he was furious to the point of murderous rage because he didn't have anyone to take from.
All the difference in the world.
God, I wish I had some kind of magic matchmaking ability. Dammit dammit dammit.
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"I believe you find life such a problem because you think there are the good people and the bad people," said the man. "You're wrong, of course. There are, always and only, the bad people, but some of them are on opposite sides."
-- Terry Pratchett, Guards! Guards!