I'm definitely asexual. I don't look for a reason behind it, though I've had many suggested to me. My doctor believes that it's due to the fact that I'm "very logical" and must need to connect with someone on a rational and intellectual level before I can feel any attraction to them. That's a curious theory, but I doubt it. I'm fine with the way things are, and I've stopped looking for signs that it's going to change at any point in the future. If it did, I suppose I'd be alright with it, though I prefer myself the way I am now. I'm lucky that my religion upholds celibate marriage as valid and even regards it as a higher calling, so if I ever find someone who's willing to settle down with me, we're good. I've also been planning to adopt kids since I was really young, so I'm content on that front, too. The bigots are annoying, of course, but who needs to know about my sexuality, anyway, other than the people I consider potential partners? All in all, I'm perfectly happy to be asexual.
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I have not the kind affections of a pigeon. - Ralph Waldo Emerson