14 Feb 2018, 1:47 pm
14 Feb 2018, 2:29 pm
I, definitely, wish we could share more of our world with animals.
But it's hard, because animals tend to live purely by their wits; that's why they're "wild" most of the time.
Yes it’s definitely not a good idea to try to pet them!
I patted a friendly eel last year, I was glad he didn’t bite. He felt like jelly.I saw a video of a lady who constantly visits and feeds a wild eel and it lets her pet it and rubs up against her whenever she comes.
14 Feb 2018, 2:49 pm
What traits do I find attractive in guys?
I have a thing for long hair and tattoos as I'm kinda in the metal scene, beards hmmm.
My dream guy would be blonde for sure 
I find visible muscles are beautiful, they make a male body absolutely gorgeous.
Blue eyes are mesmerizing, I can get lost in them forever.
Oh yeah he needs to have an eye with soul in it. A lot of people have empty robotic eyes.
But my last ex was a short, chubby, bold guy lol
At the end it doesn't matter how he looks if he has nice eyes I like and we are on the same wavelength and if we have some mindblowing sex I will be his forever and I will see him attractive. If he knows David Deida then we will be definitely on the same wavelength.
Metalheads, goths, hippies, wanderers, quirky nerdy types, artists, musicians, aspies all attractive as they have some personality.
Basically I like weirdos
14 Feb 2018, 2:57 pm
Yep, that's pretty much all the females in this thread have said.
Hey, you don't ask the fish how to fish do you?
I'm not dissing women by the way. Men are the same thing. Each sex looks for specific markes of genetic fitness or resources. Women look for good looks, status and money. Men look for good looks only.
But don't think this makes it easier for men. Women still have a large advantage in the dating scene. Just look at how many mesages women receive in dating apps compared to men.
Anyway, I'm talking about my own experience here. Women say they like other things, but that's generally after a certain "looks" requirement. Lots of guys who have what women say they want are alone, and others have gfs or interest from girls just cause they are good looking, including me(somewhat I guess
), even though I'm a terrible person tbh.That’s completely true, though I would say “good looks” are relative. I like certain looks and not others. Some of these people are good looking on society’s standards, some are average.
You’d be hard pressed to find anyone who is happy dating someone they find hideous, though that too, is relative.
most people are attractive. Most women won’t date average looking men.
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14 Feb 2018, 3:42 pm
Yep, that's pretty much all the females in this thread have said.
I thought the same sort of thing at his age, no doubt.
Sometimes the 18s are wiser and less delusional than the older adults.
I am 35 and I certainly agree with Blanknight's last post.
How can one have wisdom at 18? Wisdom is derived from life experience and acquiring knowledge, then making good sound judgement from all that you have acquired, frankly at that age, you simply haven't had much life experience nor the time to acquire knowledge and being young is synonymous with making mistakes because you have yet had the time to learn from past errors and limited time to acquire knowledge. What one would have at that age is intuition.
I think I get what he's saying. As I got older I picked up some bad preconceptions that I didn't shake until I was older still (and maybe some I still haven't gotten rid off). Not to mention that people my age and older can be quite rigid in our thinking (set in our ways, not open to new ideas, etc). And then there's the Flynn Effect.
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14 Feb 2018, 3:43 pm
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