Another day of Chronic Loneliness. IIV

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I don’t think I will find a way to be happy by myself, for just find someone to be there. Anti depression doesn’t work. I’m Just wasting money on an active lifestyle. One of my workmates said I should go on vacation. Its just another waste of money on lonely memories. I just feel that I just should give up being me and try to be someone that woman will love. It might be a lie, but it is better then feeling suicidal every other day.
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Welcome to my world.

Tim

Hey,
Your quite some dude!
I know I have met you.

I have no doubt you have already dealt with more s**t than most - even by aspie standards.
I have no doubt you can make your life worthwhile.
You don't seem too bothered about what others think of you - that can really help.
Finding true love - well that's something even NT's usually ceace to believe in.
I'm over 50 and I still haven't given up all hope of finding my sole mate.

Just hang on in there.
Choose goals that are achievable and let yourself feel good when you achieve them.

Thanks, I remember you too. Although I don’t care about usually care about what most people think, I feel that I have to make a conscious effort all the time.

Today, I was blamed for trying to get a reaction (attention seeking) by spraying my broken mobile with WD-40, to fix it. It did fix the problem and the buttons started working properly, but my biggest mistake was to let them know what I was doing.

I must start believing common knowledge is the how things really are. That translates to WD-40 doen’t fix mobile phones.

I don't know man, but doing things alone has it's advantages too. I've been in a long term relationship, and as good as it is to have someone there with you, it can create a set of new complications that make you value being alone sometimes. Anyway, no reason to give up or to stress yourself on finding someone. What happens, happens. And if you think finding someone will solve all your problems, then you've got it backwards.

By the way, good tip on the mobile phone fix. What ever works is the right answer. Your co-workers are just jealous they couldn't be so creative.