do you ever feel confident more days than others?

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i do. sometimes i feel like i can make friends all day long and im a complete sucsess but i never go out and do it, other days its the latter. is this how it is for you? or no, usually i end up in a cycle of thinking i can do great and never do anything that great

I'm all too familiar with that feeling.

maybe i just like remianing constaint. change is a little unearving i suspect thats why i act this way

This happens but all it takes is one bad thing for my self confidence to plummet.

Definately. There are times that I go to a party and can talk to everyone easily. However, most times I am awkwardly standing or sitting there, not knowing who to talk to or what to say and wishing the whole thing was over but not daring to draw attention to myself by leaving early. The feeling when it goes right is so good though that I go to every party I am invited to (not that many) just in case I have a good time.

I think everyone feels like this.

yes but normal people act on thier urges to make freinds, be better, faster, stonger, play video games. i on the other hand dont for some reason. maybe im just a boring person

Yes some days I feel really confident and happy other days I am the polar opposite withdrawn and miserable. Some equilibrium would be nice.

I definitely have days where I surprise myself
by feeling and acting confidently.The problem is that 'acting' is literally what I'm doing most
of the time and deep down I still lack
confidence,at least when it comes to social
issues

Yeah sometimes it's like that for me... more confident some days then really panicky on others... sometimes.

yeah i get it, somedays i can be abit confident/talk alot then some not at all

For the past few weeks, I've felt very down and pessimistic. Since Wednesday or Thursday, I've been really happy and confident.

I had someone tell me today how highly people think of me. Today I had a hard time believing it, but other days I do. Strange thing about confidence, I rarely know when to expect a visit.

Z

yeah, it happens sometimes. one day you can be such an hero, ne+t time you can feel like ugly duckling. part of aspies, i guess. nothing serious, though