Sophist wrote:
. . . I tend to have allergic-like reactions to many smells, like perfumes, although I don't know if those are true allergies or not.
The reaction to perfumes isn't classified as an allergy, but a sensitivity to the chemicals in fragrances - it make you react very badly though!
I get really sick when I'm near people wearing any kind of perfume or cologne, so I was interested to read that more than half of people with Asperger's have issues with fragrances, and many describe it as smelling like insecticide.
It was nice to see that written down, because for years I have wondered why people spray themselves with what smells to me like Raid.
Now I understand that while they are smelling chemical approximations of flowers or spice, all I am smelling is the underlying chemical brew.
Yeah, I can't handle most kinds of incense either. And my mother always had to okay perfumes with me before she bought them and wore them.
There are certain candle scents I can handle though: vanilla, cinnamon, apple... Mainly the smooth, light ones.