Finding Non-Superficial Women

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Volunteer workers have a high fraction of non-shallow women. It's hard to maintain that plastic veneer when giving a sponge bath to a 30-something person with low mental development and a skin condition - it takes a special kind of person to even want to volunteer for that!

hey, recently i just been thinking of places to find nice chicks

I know i sound like a retard asking, but would a train station be a good spot???
Earlier today, I seen this really good looking (not all all fake/ not heaps of makeup etc;) chick,
she was reading a book while waiting too, she didn't dress like a slut or anything,
there was something really sexy about her look, the main problem is knowing whether talk is "allowed" lol,
most of the time, whenever i talk to chicks they freak out, anyone know good icebreakers that ain't sleazy (or too sleazy) to tell a nice chick??? i hate thinking ill make a chick feel creeped out when theres no reason to be

also is there any trick way to figure out how old they are???
i think it would be a bit odd for a chick to be asked her age then suddenly i stop talking to her lol

another spot i thought might be good is any church, sound good you reckon?
i think the chicks would probably be pretty good, but i also think the father would be a crazy atheist hating madman, so thats a big risk lol

One of my friends is going out with one of the hottest chicks from back in school (i think they still in the last years), he's been going out with her for more than a year and i was incredibly jealous realising that she even plays XBOX & PS! my friend is too bloody lucky........I heard heaps of chicks do actually like playing consoles aswell

I would just like for there to be a way to meet other Aspies that doesn't involve being online.

Well, I don't know if this helps, but I did meet my Aspie boyfriend online and I'm NT, we have very similar interests but we're completely opposite, I'm kind of bossy and he doesn't mind I found him on a dating website that I was browsing through (I didn't have an account and it was free range at the time) and he had mentioned that he wanted to work in movies. That right there made me want to talk to him instantly because movies were my passion atm. It's great that our differences mesh in a really good and practical way, I help him socially and he helps me emotionally (i've never felt better about myself) .

Dare I say, dating services that have good compatibility matches. Although a bit taboo, it might prove useful in the end for those guys who haven't found a girl they liked yet. I'm not going to lie, I have never met a girl who has suited me intellectually. They may be physically attractive, but what is attraction without intelligence. When you go to a dating service, like E-Harmony or whatnot, girls are actually there looking to date guys, half the work has already been done for us guys, how nice.

However if you want to go on the prowl, places of intellectual interests would work best, libraries, art museums, museums, etc. Perhaps you can impress women with your knowledge, although considering most girls are not nearly intellectually inclined as autistic guys (sorry ladies, just my observations), they might be turned off by that.

I am still rather skeptical of online dating, but it appears to have worked for some folks. It would be nice to know how efficient the online dating sites are for Aspie guys, and if it's a better way for them to find girlfriends than trying to find them in random places.

I need to specify, online dating in the sense of professional match making services that use compatibility, etc to find matches. Online dating, in the sense of merely chatting and never meeting to build on intimacy, is useless and extremely foolish. Romance/love can only occur if two people meet on a regular basis and share intimacy and passion. That's what I meant

I mentioned before I met the person I'm seeing on a dating website but I wasn't matched with him, I just found his AIM and started chatting about stuff we both liked. We've been together for almost two years and we're intellectually on an equal level. He and I are smart in our own different catagories, I'm knowledgeable in animals, plants and anatomy and he's incredibly smart in technology, electronics and software. What's nice is we're both willing to learn from each other and we both respect each other equally. The funny thing is he only lives a mile away from me and I never knew of him before I met him online (then in a store, in the movie section).