Finding Non-Superficial Women

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Look, I'm not saying that all women who reject us are superficial, or that it's their fault... I'm just saying that we have a "better chance" if we focus on finding non-superficial women.

Cyberman,
all female aspies I know of, including myself, are on the web and are not to be found much outside where there are groups and other people. When they got to the age of 18 or so, they had so many bad experiences with aggressive NT-males that they withdrew more and more from typically meeting places.
A good advice however is animal shelters, that's where many aspie women go because many of us love animals very much.
However, do try to have a longer letter contact with aspie women you meet in forums like this one. When, after a long while of writing, you have found enough in common, it will be no problem to hop on a plane for a visit.
And: typical aspie-women are not superficial by nature, they are rather intellectual, interested about what you have to say, not how you look. But we expect you to be the same and not an imitated-NT-adapted-type, we have enough of those around.

Tim in Texas: it's not unrealistic, to hope some aspie woman would move to your area - I would go anywhere in the world, why not? If I'd move 50 miles to another city, I'd have a totally new start there, I could move 5000 miles, it would be the same. (In your case you would just have to stop the hurricanes coming by..hm.)

Angie