need help with stuff concerning dating (no sh*t shoerlock)

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there is a girl (a goth girl i should ad) that likes me, and i like her, but she dosent want to go out with me, even tho be both know we like each olther,
she says "i want to concentrate on my studies", but thats proberbly been used a lot of times before
however, the school holidays start tomorow (cant remember the dates) and then she wouldent be concetrating on her studies,
what should i do
1)ask her out again on the holidays
2)wait until the holidays are over (cause i dont have her number)
3) give up and resort to pornoghraphy
4) any suggestions you guys have would be good

Ask her out tomorrow, on a date that will take place during the holidays.

If she still sloughs you off, you've got your answer.

cool thanks for ya help
one problem
im incredably bad at asking people out

Just ask if she wants to go to the mall, or out somewhere to eat.. something casual, like Chipotle or something. Then, when you're out, tell her how much you like her.. you don't need to do anything else, do whatever you normally do with her, just let her know you like her. Then maybe ask her out to a movie or whatever you'd wanna do for your date.

Give it up. First it's "I gotta concentrate on my studies." Then it's, "It's not you, it's me" and "I'm not ready for a relationship." Followed by, "Let's just be friends." And winding up with either, "I need more space" or "Does this perfume smell like pepper spray to you?"

You're better of without her.

wow, i didnt expect so much responsivness

Option 3)