How do I keep an Asperger's boyfriend?

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Orbyss
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30 Nov 2008, 9:12 pm

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What do I have to do to KEEP a boyfriend with Asperger's?


I'm convinced that doesn't quite apply here. Seriously, he sounds pretty batty. But it's your prerogative whether to pursue him or not.

Be warned, he sounds pretty disordered. I rarely ever suggest this since I love to see relationships work out, but I'd advise you drop him like a hot potato.



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30 Nov 2008, 10:56 pm

I'm gonna try talking to his mom for awhile and see what she thinks about the success of the situation in the long run. Right now, I just don't want to hurt him and make his mom put him back in a hospital.

About his exgirlfriend - he is in contact with the girl's family every few years and is friends with all of them. I don't think he's ever said goodbye. He knows she has passed away a few years ago, he just checks in on the family.

If his mom isn't 100% against the idea of me, I will try to see him again. At this point, she is going to dictate how he is feeling and if he can speak to me or not. I have the feeling I will just be phoning her and asking if he's doing ok.

Thanks for the advice. I hope I can use some of it soon.



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