Asperger's, moral conservatism, swearing and dirty jokes
I swear (though not excessively) and I don't mind dirty, lewd or profane jokes. Additionally, no one apologizes for anything to me. Actually, it is usually me that who has to do the apologizing after making jokes or comments that are deemed inappropriate. Not always dirty or profane either, quite often just brutally honest--lacking minimal tact.
In fact, comical story:
I was in a business meeting (phone conference) with several other co-workers and a customer. Having just transfered from another state, I was not very familiar with all the personalities. People where joking about one of the customer's employees only whispering during the conference as a result of a co-worker who is usually quite rude and crass to her. I chimed in with, "It's probably because she doesn't like you."
Luckily for me people thought I was making some sort of joke and laughed it off. It still is brought up to this day that I "successfully" managed to say something apparently rude and get away with it under the guise of a joke.
I swear more than anyone I know, so no one apologizes except my mom. And I don't understand that--why apologize for using a word that's used in a completely inoffensive way? Like we're playing Mario Kart and she'll go "Oh s**t!" when her kart goes the wrong way, and then she'll go "Excuse me!" But it makes no sense--she knows no one in the room will be offended by it, and it's not offensive to say it to begin with.
Moreover, I don't believe for a second that the use of "curse words" indicates a limited vocabulary. To the contrary, LIMITING your language is what does that.
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