sinsboldly wrote:
wow, are you saying all my relationships and all my roomates I was being dishonest by living with them and never knowing I was autistic?
Merle
*thpbt* That was not my intent - if it came off that way, thank you for telling me! But if one knows that they can't cope with loud music and doesn't speak up about it, is it fair to come back once they've moved in and make it a contentious issue then? It's a matter of sharing awareness, that's all... my best comparison is my frequent reminder to my fiance that I'm a difficult and moody person to deal with at times, and I can't offer predictive information to help her know when it is coming. But I've told her this since before I learned of my son's HFA diagnosis, and my subsequent discovery of my own AS.
M.
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My thanks to all the wonderful members here; I will miss the opportunity to continue to learn and work with you.
For those who seek an alternative, it is coming.
So long, and thanks for all the fish!