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How Many Guys or Girls have been ignored by the opposite sex on WP or AA
Guys who have been ignored by girls 71%  71%  [ 25 ]
Girls who have been ignored by guys 29%  29%  [ 10 ]
Total votes : 35

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04 Nov 2009, 8:26 pm

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I'm finding this thread disappointing because it seems like the values I'm seeing here are just as shallow as those of NTs: you want to find a pretty girl, just like the NT guys do. How many of you (who feel that's important) are really good looking guys, in fact? I have seen so many men of all kinds of neurological makeups screw themselves up, over the decades I've been observing such behavior, because they get stuck with this "I've got to pull a babe, or I'll look like I'm settling" kind of crap. When a man grows up enough to start looking beneath the surface, then is when he's more likely to meet a woman who can do the same.


I totally agree with you, it annoys me how some aspie guys think getting a pretty girl will solve all their problems. I had a conversation on MSN where a friend introduced me to his friend. This guy immediately asked to swap photos. I was thinking, "OK, this is a bit soon, but OK"...so when I sent mine, he just replied "No". He was no stunner himself - he looked depressed and ill.



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04 Nov 2009, 9:01 pm

Most of the guys I didn't respond to on Aspie Affection because they were either too far or too intense. Also some guy with a nickname of something like "always_stoned" I obviously wasn't going to respond to.

Aussiebloke OK???



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04 Nov 2009, 9:03 pm

It *is* a bit hard when you're on the other side of the world from me :)



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04 Nov 2009, 9:06 pm

NO NO NO I mean the name "aussiebloke" thats not creepy is it??



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04 Nov 2009, 9:09 pm

Why would it be creepy?



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04 Nov 2009, 9:22 pm

Sorry, me being paranoid, it's hard not to be that way when you can't keep up with Nt's in conversation, dopey grin,not look in to their eyes etc etc.

Stone dude sounds like a funny guy for about 5 minutes than I would just end up feeling sorry for him??



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04 Nov 2009, 10:09 pm

"Aussiebloke" is a good screenname for that sort of site. And this one too.



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05 Nov 2009, 6:40 am

To be honest the nicknames don't really bother me. It's just that...well..."stoned"?!



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05 Nov 2009, 6:13 pm

Nah I think it's funny, who would admit on an NT dating sight their into weed,reading DSMV, and pornography? can't get into porn myself feel so sad for the ladies they've all been (most of them) molested and or on drugs (well that's what porno actress Jemma Jameson claims in her autobiography) so not cool in my eyes



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05 Nov 2009, 6:16 pm

He was no stunner himself - he looked depressed and ill.

Laughs, men are idiots!



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05 Nov 2009, 6:28 pm

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Nah I think it's funny, who would admit on an NT dating sight their into weed,reading DSMV, and pornography?


Ha, good point.

I suppose it is idiotic when guys set their standards so high. Most guys are like this. I just don't understand it.



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05 Nov 2009, 6:52 pm

You sound cool smudge, sorry to sound guyie (not a word I know) unless your serioulsy pig ugly theirs hope! having said that I'd be friends with some one who's "ugly"



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05 Nov 2009, 6:57 pm

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You sound cool smudge, sorry to sound guyie (not a word I know) unless your serioulsy pig ugly theirs hope! having said that I'd be friends with some one who's "ugly"


So do you. Give me a definition of 'pig ugly'.



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05 Nov 2009, 7:27 pm

www.awfulplasticsurgery.com



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05 Nov 2009, 7:34 pm

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www.awfulplasticsurgery.com


I agree, plastic looks freaky.



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05 Nov 2009, 7:42 pm

Thank you I am cool! Not to big note myself almost everything (interests) that's wasn't considered cool in my primary school days now has sudenly become "cool" and mainstrem such as video games and electronic (dance) music. Often tormented at school for my "weird" interests. Hell I don't even consider being in to DSMV "wierd"



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