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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Been caught masterbating |
| wiztrader |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2020, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 491
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| Has anyone here been caught or walked in on when you been self loving. Last weekend I thought my partner was out and I decided to strip off and squat on a stool with a dildo that can stick to a hard surface. So I'm squating up and down with the dildo sliding inside me anally with one hand on my nip... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What did diagnosis bring you? |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2019, 10:51 am
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Replies: 53
Views: 3,197
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| Diagnosis allowed me to FINALLY forgive myself. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you have GI issues? |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2019, 9:12 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 1,582
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| I have been plagued with GI issues my whole entire life. My father often referred to me as having a "nervous stomach." At the urging of my wife I have been taking probiotics for a while now and I have to say this is the healthiest I have been ever. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Interacting with family who believe that ASD is fake |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2019, 8:41 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,043
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| Same here. If I do have to interact, it's just not discussed. I dont need their validation to know what my challenges are. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex Toys |
| wiztrader |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2019, 7:57 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 426
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| I have a Fleshlight that I used judiciously when I was single. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Nudity |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2019, 11:17 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 767
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| This is an interesting discussion to me. I have never labeled myself a nudist, but I have had a dislike of clothes all of my life. As such being nude was sort of my natural inclination. When I was a child I would change my underwear 5 times a day. Not for hygiene, because it drove me crazy. So did s... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Being a spouse and a parent is...exhausting |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2017, 9:20 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,354
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| I really understand where you are coming from. My own marriage is almost a mirror of what you are describing about yours. When I finally pursued a diagnosis our counselor (who was almost exasperated from her advice not working as well as it should have) told us "I am not trained to deal with sp... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Does your family have a nickname for you? |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2017, 3:23 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 429
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| Screensaver. Derived from my uncanny ability to "check out" and go blank when there is too much going on. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Keep a word, drop a word... |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2017, 11:28 am
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Replies: 45,073
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is ASD diagnosis detrimental to romantic success? |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2017, 11:24 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,616
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| I can only think of two possibilities: 1. Many people get diagnosed because they fail with relationships 2. The things diagnosed people are taught are highly detrimental to their success with relationships So, which is it? You have left out a lot of possibilities. Further, a diagnosis is not detrim... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what comes after dating sites? |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2017, 11:17 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,685
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| I was in your exact situation once. After a lot of reflection I decided to face my fears and do whatever it took to get "out there." Started with lots of dating advice, practiced a lot, went out a lot by myself, and I guess the rest is history. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: What's Your Line? |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2017, 11:04 am
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Replies: 2,145
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| "That's you, trying to disguise yourself as a worker bee. That's you tryin' to blend in with the hive. But you're not a worker bee. You're a renegade killer bee." (Bill to Beatrix Kiddo, Kill Bill Vol. 2) |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I would like to date |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2017, 1:29 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 225
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| Dating, in whatever avenue that you choose to pursue it is always worth it. Forget trying to meet someone that has the same interest as you. Why limit yourself? Put yourself out there, meet folks because you will learn. You will learn a tremendous amount about yourself and the world. Worry about 100... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Which social rules do you find don't make sense? |
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Posted: 19 Jun 2017, 7:48 am
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Replies: 93
Views: 4,211
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| Why it "looks silly" to wear shorts when it's raining but is still hot (like 30 degrees C). Why women get ridiculed horrifically if we have unshaved legs in the summer. Men mostly sweat more but it's still socially acceptable for them to choose to have hairy armpits, even though sweaty ar... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How Many People Have You Had Sex With? |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 6:23 pm
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Replies: 242
Views: 4,160
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Hundreds (around 200). No I am not joking. And I was a virgin until I was almost 20. And in my late 20s I went four years without sleeping with anyone. Had a couple of good years here and there  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do aspies start masturbating earlier than NTs? |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2017, 5:39 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 1,679
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| True to my aspie nature I have been a late bloomer for most things so I didn't start until age 15. That was actually before I started getting pubic hair. |
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