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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Moving from Ireland to US - is it realistic? |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2021, 3:07 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 4,765
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Why the hell would you want to move here, we're all as*holes.
That being said, it's probably easier to move here than other places. But why would you want to? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I date her or not? |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2021, 2:55 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,836
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| 100% certain it's a troll. He's asking questions that fit societies stereotypical idea of what an asd would ask. The stereotype itself is BS enough that I'm tempted to really hurt his feelings, but I guess I'll restrain myself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People having more success than me |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2021, 10:24 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,467
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| And it seems like every woman around my age that I meet is already in a relationship, seems they always make a point to bring up their boyfriends in conversation, like they’re trying to make me feel terrible or something… It's a cheap trick.. I mean sometimes it's a legit, till you see like 3 more ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Surely it must be just as difficult right? |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2021, 2:41 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,321
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| They shouldn't be involved in your social life. It sounds weird they'll pay for you to drink but not date. Another thing that's not adding up. You don't need a job to date, but it's not the best. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Need for Romantic Intimacy |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2021, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 148
Views: 11,959
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| Unclear, pay for it how? With a salary, presents, a house, and stability? Even without those, you can still get "it", its just more difficult. I sure wouldn't trust a gold digger anyway. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Endless Prison |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2021, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 865
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I regret that the police abused you. I cannot justify their behavior.
Know there are plenty of people that have experienced similar situations and survived. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Need for Romantic Intimacy |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2021, 9:51 pm
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Replies: 148
Views: 11,959
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I just added that as a disclaimer, no offense 
If you lost 100 lbs in 6 months, well dating is a lot easier than that. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Not taking it as a compliment? |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2021, 9:09 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,289
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| A lot of things are not adding up for me based on what you told us, but you need to avoid this pub. Go somewhere else with your friend. People go to pubs to drink and try to get laid (occasionally to play cards, pool or music, but you're not there for that). How is someone with ASD supposed to fit i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Need for Romantic Intimacy |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2021, 8:42 pm
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Replies: 148
Views: 11,959
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| It feels like I'm never going to experience the joy of being with someone, and I'll instead have to endure an unrelenting romantic loneliness until I die of a broken heart. You can feel or guess whatever you want about the future, it doesn't mean that's what's going to happen. the days where I coul... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Endless Prison |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2021, 1:24 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 865
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| It seems worse then it is. But if everyone is delusional, doesn't that make the world itself an illusion? If so, then it sure doesn't bother me, the same way I forget my dreams in the morning. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: When will it end? |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2021, 1:16 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 439
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| Nothing you posted at all gave me sense you were a "faker" or a "liar" or anything of that sense. What most people are probably just thinking is, it's not fun being a kid and questioning whether you have Asperger's or autism or what not. The diagnosis is not you. Don't overwork y... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling of being watched |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2021, 1:06 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,971
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| I had a tendency to think people were always talking or thinking about how weird I was I realized layer that even if for a brief moment they thought I was weird, they would only think about it for 2 minutes before all the other things they had to do that day would overwhelm any small thought they ha... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Everything Is So Worse |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2021, 1:02 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 505
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| You can probably reach out to your Facebook friends or call a crisis hotline. Your pain will likely pass with time. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Scared of covid |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2021, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 943
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| Have you thought of trying to find ways to relieve the anxiety? I'm only telling you this because I get really bad anxiety attacks, so I feel for you and I think (although I'm not a doc) that you might be having one. They suck and they hurt, but they eventually go away. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: In a "Friendship" because you are disabled or autistic |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2021, 9:34 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,830
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| So I'm going to feel a sense of comradery if someone is the same minority group as I. So I'll try to help them, but not if they don't listen or are just generally jerks. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sarcasm or not? |
| OutUponATreeBranch |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2021, 7:53 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 743
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| It sounds like you keep going to the wrong pubs. |
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