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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2021, 1:53 pm
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| We saw each other on Friday, and on Saturday. Exchanged kisses. He sends me a kiss goodnight or a hug, every other night, and I return it. We made plans for the holiday, which I'll have soon, but he forgot to ask free for. So we're going for a weekend, with his camper. I asked him for one day but he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2021, 2:21 pm
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| Today, I had a funeral to go to. M. went with me, and as it is with him: once you've got him, you've got him all day, full focus. The funeral was in my hometown, and it was hot weather, so afterwards I walked him through the town streets of the city I grew up in. He just liked it, just walked with m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 31 May 2021, 1:47 pm
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| I know I know kraftiekortie... I'm trying to be a little more laid back these days. But it's hard, to give short answers. It is late every night, but he sends me a warm 'sleep well' every night still. He still calls me sweetheart. He's not fond of letting go either, but a bit better than me at least... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 30 May 2021, 6:52 am
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| Well if it doesn't work it doesn't work, even if you guys have feelings for each other if you fight too much like that is just not a sign of good compatibility. Conflicts will happen in any relationship but if its more conflict than getting along it probably is not meant to be. I find it hard to de... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 30 May 2021, 1:06 am
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| Yesterday, we had this typical thing again that made me realise why I quit. I have said there was a thing in my family. It is that my father passed away after months of illness. I have not been in much contact due to they denying my autism last decennia, even after my diagnosis. But I've been there ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 25 May 2021, 12:28 pm
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| Same same... In the village I come from, I think the word autism has never been used by any doctor, at least not in my juvenile years. I was called slow, lazy, stubborn, a dreamer, reluctant, indecisive. I was immensely creative, I made a thing a day, from paper and adhesive tape. I played on my own... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 24 May 2021, 3:40 pm
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| The problem is that if I am on the spectrum, the patterns are self taught and I don't know anything different, and if I am not on the spectrum then I would not know either. I have traits. I know I have traits! I have learned I have traits since joining this site! Traits I didn't know were traits! I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 24 May 2021, 3:17 pm
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| The last day of kitchen work was due, and I am glad M. came to help me these days. Since we were talking now and then, about the relationship... and things were bittersweet, I figure that a bit of talking things out was okay. I still think that now, but I feel like I've been a terror witch - alas he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 24 May 2021, 12:45 pm
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| Lol, most people just don't think that much. And that much ahead. They don't think in patterns, like you would learn a universal remote a few patterns so it will be able to talk to your TV after that. Normal people just consume any social interaction as it comes at them, and answer from the top of t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 24 May 2021, 5:14 am
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| I know it is hard to give advice. There is no one solution. I'm just writing things off my mind on a dark corner of the internet and I'm happy with all response (be it personal experience, mention of having not personal experience, or just comfort) ... I don't know where this is going. Yes I underst... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 24 May 2021, 4:01 am
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| Yes I often think that, that we are too similar to be together. Yesterday he was here again, and today after lunch he'll be back. We worked on my kitchen all day, and he put all his appointments aside, nothing was too much - even pick up spare parts a few towns away, he would do it. We had lunch, di... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 22 May 2021, 12:35 pm
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| I know, that's the way finding your ideal partner goes. This was not my first partner. I've had a few long relationships, involving living together, as well. Most of them lasted about four years. This one two and a half - but I was in my mind ready for the four years and beyond. It just didn't turn ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 22 May 2021, 11:50 am
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| After the 'free for all' last Sunday, I wanted the following appointment to go by my rules. Throughout the week we talked like friends, and tha tis really something we do. We mention every oops, every drop of rain, we're just chatty like that. Other friends get well annoyed by such random blurts, bu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 18 May 2021, 3:59 am
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| I hear that from older friends I know, with those I mean +60, who went to dating sites and found new love, in whatever form then... They use to call their newfound loves 'life partners' or 'life companions' - nothing sort of the 'courtship' 'boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse/so' ... in a way it sounds muc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 18 May 2021, 1:32 am
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| How do you mean stopped labeling? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break up regrets, and a time out |
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Posted: 17 May 2021, 2:26 pm
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| He wants his cake, and to eat it as well. You should have that same mindset.... Indeed, he now has all he wanted, and the freedom, too... So I understand why he is not in favor to change it back. May it be pride, or fear of repetition of his former love. I said to him tonight that I wanted to respo... |
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