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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Biden ‘loses control’ of Mexico border |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2023, 6:42 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,620
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LOL. I've been gone a while. Funny how the impending "total chaos" is still about to happen. It's a bit like those "The world will end on this date!" folks who just keep changing the date when the world fails to end.
Fear mongering at its best. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Poly people |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2022, 11:29 am
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Replies: 55
Views: 347
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| I think I'd recommend "The Ethical Slut" by or "Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory (Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up)" by Cunning Minx (She also has a very informative podcast), or maybe "The Jealousy Workbook" by Kathy Labriola I'm inclined to steer away ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Biden ‘loses control’ of Mexico border |
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Posted: 16 May 2021, 6:33 am
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| You do realize that we can go find a smear campaign for ourselves right? Sky is called Fox here. If we want to find a hit piece on Biden about something that's constantly been a problem already we don't have to look this far. Nothing about any border has ever been in total control. This forum threa... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Men's Discussion |
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Posted: 16 May 2021, 6:26 am
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Replies: 846
Views: 250,810
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| Gender is only complex for a minority of people. That's true. It is a minority. Should society make minor adaptations that help a minority of people? Like... for instance, us autistic people? I'd like some accommodations. Only fair that I provide them as well, especially since it's just two damned ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Men's Discussion |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2021, 5:03 am
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Replies: 846
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| When it comes to use of pronouns, it's just a pair of short little words that let people know something about you. As for the relatively new acceptance of gender gradients, I'm an empiricist as heart. Whenever society moves closer to reality, I'm all for it. The scientific consensus is clear here. G... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2018, 12:05 pm
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Replies: 29
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| We get it rdos. You’re asexual and happy and we’d all be happier if we had your sexuality. The world would be a better place and it would rain jellybeans and unicorns would dance in the streets passing out ice cream. Please STOP trying to convert me to your sexuality. I’m going to report you for any... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Attracting men your age |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2018, 8:20 am
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Replies: 39
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| I’m seeing a lot of stereotypes about “creepy old guys” and not a lot of actual suggestions in answer to OP’s question. First as a “creepy old guy,” some of us are attracted to some younger women. Let’s not call us creepy just because of our sexual preference. You’re allowed to like what you like, ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Attracting men your age |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2018, 4:59 am
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Replies: 39
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| I've always felt most attracted to women at the age of 25 or thereabouts. That was true when I was 17 and it's still partially true now that I'm 63. Since I don't expect a woman that age to be interested, I quit bothering to hit on them at about the age of 40. The biggest age difference between me ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Attracting men your age |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2018, 6:28 am
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Replies: 39
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| I’m seeing a lot of stereotypes about “creepy old guys” and not a lot of actual suggestions in answer to OP’s question. First as a “creepy old guy,” some of us are attracted to some younger women. Let’s not call us creepy just because of our sexual preference. You’re allowed to like what you like, a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2017, 2:46 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,081
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| I was the woman in a sexless marriage for a long time and it really gets to you. I'm certain my ex is on the spectrum (undiagnosed) and he had major issues with touch and physical intimacy and like some here I don't think he got much emotional bonding ju-ju out of the act. He had a libido, wanted s... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: The Garrison Keillor allegations have me quesy |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2017, 12:52 am
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| http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2017/11/30/why_garrison_keillor_s_fall_from_grace_feels_particularly_queasy_making.html At this point all we know is that he's been accused of "inappropriate behavior." We don't know what the behavior was. The only info we have are speculations by him (... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2017, 4:38 am
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Replies: 29
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| Just ask her or our female couples therapist. I’m clearly the problem. I think that the success of couples counselling relies on all parties feeling involved and, at least to some extent, like they are achieving something. It sounds like you don't much care for your current counsellor, so do you ha... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2017, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Well this got derailed fast. No one in this scenario has ever identified as asexual or ever expressed anything less than a desire to have more sex, but thanks for the unsolicited lecture on your only topic. Then why lesbian women on dating apps behave like pervert males? Seriously - try to create a ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else with aspergers become "depressed" (but not sad)? |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Oh absolutely. I'll have low energy, achy joints. Nothing I do can hold my interest and nothing seems worth putting in the effort. I might be sad for a bit, or a bout of sadness will trigger it, but then that lifts and I'm still having all the other symptoms. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 29
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| After all, sex isn't a necessary component of a relationship, unlike what some people think. It's perfectly possible to be married and not have any sex. :wink: If a person feels it's necessary, who the hell are you to tell them otherwise. This isn't my first rodeo on here. Look. You're asexual. I g... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexless and Severely depressed. |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 6:14 am
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Replies: 29
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| Thanks for the input, rdos, but my wife is not asexual. She enjoys sex and wants it, it's just that her anxiety means that it's never at the top of her priority list at the moment. I know that asexuality is your conceptual hammer, but this isn't a nail. The problem is that everything she wants is an... |
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