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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My first and so far only real girlfriend

Posted: Today, 7:03 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 81


Well OK, I was just supporting the OP because I know he's feeling down about not finding a girlfriend, and a lot of Aspies here have never even had sex before. It's not like the OP raped her or anything. Sounds like they were both consenting at the time. I'm a woman myself by the way. Thank you, Jo...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My first and so far only real girlfriend

Posted: Today, 6:10 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 81


Well at least you've had sex then. 8) I don't know how old you are but I know some NTs who are in their 30s and still haven't found the right person to settle down with. I think there's far more to life and happiness and even a relationship than simply treating a girl or woman as a scoreboard to la...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My first and so far only real girlfriend

Posted: Today, 3:34 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 81


Well at least you've had sex then. 8) I don't know how old you are but I know some NTs who are in their 30s and still haven't found the right person to settle down with. I think there's far more to life and happiness and even a relationship than simply treating a girl or woman as a scoreboard to la...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Damn Facebook!

 Post subject: Re: Damn Facebook!
Posted: Today, 3:31 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 167


I no longer use my Facebook account and don’t regret it. That’s messed up how they gave you a warning for standing up for innocent animals. Yes that's right. I'd understand it if I'd aimed it at someone personally, whether I knew them or not. I believe that criminals that do bad things to living cr...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My first and so far only real girlfriend

Posted: Today, 1:49 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 81


Well at least you've had sex then. 8) I don't know how old you are but I know some NTs who are in their 30s and still haven't found the right person to settle down with. I was probably one of the few in that group who experienced sex. There were guys older than me who never did as well as never eve...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My first and so far only real girlfriend

Posted: Today, 1:33 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 81


I sometimes forget that I’ve actually had a girlfriend. Her name was Vanessa and she was born in Canada but lived in Texas because her mother was married to an American man. We first met at an Autism/Aspergers support group I used to be a part of. She actually showed interest in me first and even be...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Damn Facebook!

 Post subject: Re: Damn Facebook!
Posted: Today, 12:55 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 167


I no longer use my Facebook account and don’t regret it. That’s messed up how they gave you a warning for standing up for innocent animals.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Those who used to respond positively but no longer do

Posted: Today, 12:47 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 408


Well no one should tell you how to think or feel or suppress you in anyway Marknis or tell you not to talk about how you feel but what i meant was, some people especially those you don't know very well may not have your best interest at heart, some people kick others down when they're feeling down....

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Applied for volunteering but already worried

Posted: Today, 12:42 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 91


No response yet. Was this all for nothing?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Applied for volunteering but already worried

Posted: Yesterday, 11:19 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 91


I’ve worked at the same place since high school, too—for over 40 years. I’m only a little embarrassed. It’s certainly better than working at 13 different places in 13 years. I would feel different if a certain someone I’ve had bad blood with for many years now didn’t have plans to work there until ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Applied for volunteering but already worried

Posted: Yesterday, 10:20 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 91


I would also try to find new friends/acquaintances and then find girlfriends through them. Just like a job you shouldn't be hitting on your fellow volunteers or the people you are helping, and your new friends/acquaintances will allow you to make connections with more people if you hang out with th...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Applied for volunteering but already worried

Posted: Yesterday, 8:14 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 91


Is your goal in volunteering to meet single women? I hope your goal is to enjoy new interests and keep busy in hopes of feeling more cheerful, and developing your work skills. It would be great if you get to know new friends, men or women, but I hope that isn't your primary reason for seeking a vol...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Applied for volunteering but already worried

Posted: Yesterday, 6:18 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 91


I talked to the museum I had in mind about volunteering at and they told me to fill out an online application then wait for two days to hear back from them. I did it last night and I think they will contact me back tomorrow. However, I am already worried things could go bad. What if no one wants to ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Those who used to respond positively but no longer do

Posted: Yesterday, 4:38 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 408


Again, you're gambling with your sanity and that's extremely dangerous. What can you do to take a bit of control over your happiness and sanity? But what should I tell myself in the event it doesn’t happen? I feel like every avenue I’ve tried has been a dead end and I don’t want to live past 35 at ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Those who used to respond positively but no longer do

Posted: Yesterday, 4:35 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 408


It’s better to be alone then with the wrong person Marknis. Also you can’t rely on someone else to make you happy. Still I hope you’ll meet people and I wish you well. I hope it gives you the opportunity to talk to women and become more confident. Only thing i wouldn't mention if i was you, is how ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Those who used to respond positively but no longer do

Posted: Yesterday, 2:13 am 

Replies: 27
Views: 408


My older brother always rejected women who were, in his view, nice because he thought going for a high maintenance woman was a “challenge”. When I listened to him say that, I said in my mind “No, you are just an idiot.” Depends what "nice" mean in this context. If it's a synonym for meek ...
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