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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Will my baby be like me

 Post subject: Re: Will my baby be like me
Posted: 25 Nov 2018, 4:03 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 713


that's why I'm never going to have a baby. I won't even take the risk.

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Don't know if I should quit

Posted: 18 Sep 2018, 1:17 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 543


They've had problems with me from the start that I am sure come from a personal dislike for me. At least all their remarks are personal comments, mocking, laughing. I once asked one guy what his problem with me is after a woman came to me and said he just followed her outside to ask her what I just ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Don't know if I should quit

Posted: 18 Sep 2018, 11:32 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 543


It is normally a lot easier to get a job if you already have one. So, just because you had a lot of rejections in the past doesn't really mean it will be that way if you look now while you still have a job. When I was applying in the past and got rejection after rejection I also had a job (which I ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Don't know if I should quit

 Post subject: Don't know if I should quit
Posted: 18 Sep 2018, 11:18 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 543


English isn't my first language, so I apologize if this isn't easy to read. I'm at my new temp factory job since about 2 months now, and I'm feeling awful there. Two of the guys in my team are really nasty to me. I dread going there every day and I cry after work. I've applied to so many jobs before...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: the sexual habits of this era upset me (read NT's behavior)

Posted: 23 Jan 2018, 1:00 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 482


I'm not bothered by 2 people having consensual sex and I think it's none of my business who people of "this era" are sleeping with. I wouldn't like hooking up with random or lots of people (but I'm on the asexual spectrum anyway). I can't wrap my head around long-term / lifelong monogamy e...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 3:32 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


kraftiekortie wrote:

I hope, OP, that you do feel like hugging a man again. Please don’t be angry at all men.

I'm not angry at men. I just don't want the same thing to happen again, that he wants a relationship and sex, because I want neither.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 3:30 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


Probably Drunk. Neither me, nor anybody in this thread, nor feminists are saying that I should use my 'women's privilege' to continue to hug this guy. You're missing the point. I'm not saying you're using it, I'm saying people are defending behaviour that they wouldn't defend from a man, it's not a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 3:18 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


Probably Drunk. Neither me, nor anybody in this thread, nor feminists are saying that I should use my 'women's privilege' to continue to hug this guy. You're missing the point.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 3:02 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


the issue is that she knew what he wanted and continued to repeatedly kiss and cuddle with him knowing that in his mind things were getting more serious and that he was planning a future with her, and letting a guy rub his penis on you and ejaculate on you is a little more than something semi-sexua...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Annoyed and other people's sounds

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 2:30 pm 

Replies: 1
Views: 241


Recently I've started getting annoyed with some things that havn't bothered me before. Examples of this is my mother helping me with school work; her tips seem pretty useless and she does it slowly. I know that i should feel thankful that she is helping me, but I cant help but to feel annoyed when ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 1:56 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


Thanks everyone for the replies. I'm going to end it next time I see him, maybe on Monday.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 1:52 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


He knew her for a full year before the cuddling thing. I think he was in love with her way before the 2 last weeks. well he was trying to set me up around October last year with a guy. I don't work there anymore since about 2 months, and before I stopped working there we never met outside of work. ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 12:48 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


Probably_Drunk wrote:
stop playing games with him, you know he wants a relationship, stop using him to satisfy your own needs, you know he doesn't want to just be friends and hug.

Probably you should repeat it a few more times. :jester:
I wasn't playing any games.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 12:41 pm 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


listening to all his plans for their future together, yeah but he's listened to me too telling him I don't want to go on holiday, nor do I want marriage and nuclear family and that I want to live alone. And I think you mentioned it above that he has told his family about me, but no he hasn't and I ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 9:03 am 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


Sorry, I wasn't very clear on that point but we didn't have sex. It was sexual, at least for him. He was rubbing his penis against my belly and then he came. I told him last week I don't want sex and he said 'don't worry, I don't even have condoms in the house.' But after what happened yesterday I k...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't know how to reject him.

Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 6:51 am 

Replies: 72
Views: 3,064


(First of all, English isn't my first language) I don't know how to let down a guy. I'm scared of hurting his feelings and I'm also scared of losing him as a friend because I have no other friends. I met him at my last job a year ago. He told me a couple of months ago that he has a crush on me and I...
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