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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Aspergers Life After College |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2019, 10:37 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 447
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| Hi everyone, my name is Joe. I am a recently graduated physics major living at home. It’s been about 2 months since I’ve graduated, and the transition from college life to searching for a job has been difficult. In college, I was not the most social person. I was often depressed and overwhelmed and ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Social Anxiety and College |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2018, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 355
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| Right now I am a senior in college with two semesters left, and am still dealing with a lot of social anxiety. The last few semesters I've fallen into kind of the same pitfalls each time. I tend to have a rough few weeks into the semester I have trouble keeping u with my work, my grades begin to sli... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to be Friends With Someone, But... |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 3:47 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 385
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| I admit I am too. The best advice I can give is try to find some kind of ice breaker, like if she's wearing a shirt with one of your favorite characters on it. Tell her your a fan of that too and ask her what her favorite hero or villain is. Just try to find an ice breaker pertaining to the moment a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to Make a Girl Comfortable more around me? |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 3:31 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 255
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| I would say just try to warm up to her little and little as a friend. Just ask her about herself. If she's still comfortable talking, maybe you can eventually ask her if she knows anyone who could be a potential match. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to react when a girl looks at you? |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 3:21 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,088
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| For me it depends on the situation. If the girl looks at me first, I'll usually smile and wave hello. If I'm looking at her and she looks back at me, I'll immediately look away. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to understand friendship and platonic feelings |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 3:08 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 660
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| I also have issues with maintaining and growing relationships with my friends. Romantic and more platonic friendships are even harder. I have a few close friends and a fair number of acquaintances, but its hard for me grow relationships with my acquaintances, since its hard for me to tell whether or... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you think most people are annoying? |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 2:31 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 2,799
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| I admit sometimes I do. I have days where I don't want to talk to people and just be left alone to do what I want/need to do. But usually when someone wants to chat with me, I am more than willing to. I don't talk with people online much, mostly because I end up getting preoccupied and forget until ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do you cope with loneliness? |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2016, 11:45 am
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Replies: 100
Views: 5,142
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| I found myself feeling very lonely last semester in college. My two roommates completely ignored me and had their friends over all the time. It made me feel even worse. But to cope I would just try to distract myself and sleep. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone have particular difficulty with social media? |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2016, 11:40 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 659
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| Yes, I feel you. Whenever I'm on facebook, I see my friends or acquaintances having a good time and enjoying things I wish I could enjoy. I already deal with major depression, but it makes me feel even more alone and not want to talk to people. I mostly just use it to look at and share memes. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are many autistic people introverts? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2016, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 1,407
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| I tend to be very introverted, but I do still like to be with my friends and groups with similar interests. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do you cope with loneliness? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2016, 6:04 pm
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Replies: 100
Views: 5,142
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| Agreed. If I can't get in contact with a friend, I just find something to distract myself and occupy my time. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Keep a word, drop a word... |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 9:42 pm
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Replies: 45,116
Views: 440,539
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Post a book/movie/game and replace a word with spam |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 9:40 pm
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Replies: 1,448
Views: 21,648
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Almost ten years and things don't seem to be getting better |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 9:35 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,092
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| I feel ya. I'm 20, but the whole dating issue has been bothering me for quite some time. At this point I feel like I've just giving up on the whole thing for the time being, it makes me upset to just think about it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Weird" things you find relaxing |
| auralucario7 |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 9:23 pm
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Replies: 100
Views: 4,682
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| Showers, swimming, rainstorms (not REALLY severe weather), water, the quiet sounds of a fan, cuddling with a pillow |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Parties are not my thing |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2016, 9:17 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,705
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| Ditto. I can tolerate loud music, but its not my cup of tea. When I do go to parties, I'm usually just keep to myself unless someone starts conversation or if it's just a few of my friends. I prefer a quieter evening playing Mario Party or something. But when its all people I don't know, I just kind... |
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