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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What are the best love songs no one has never heard of?

Posted: 30 Jul 2021, 12:18 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 251


I'm sure there are some, but I've never heard of them.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 29 Jul 2021, 10:42 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 126


Talking about them with my s/o doesn't help me believe them less, feel better, and it bothers him a lot to hear it, and it is a real threat to our relationship and our future if it comes out. To clarify, I encourage her to speak to me about things that bother her. When she says she is worried that ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 29 Jul 2021, 8:59 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 126


Me and my girlfriend Rexi are putting together this post, she is struggling currently with abandonment fears. She needs to be able to come here and have a place to let out and talk about her emotions surrounding her fears, especially when they kick in. Advice, suggestions are welcome. We will post m...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:24 pm 

Replies: 111
Views: 2,126


Maybe they aren't really confident then?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My problem

 Post subject: Re: My problem
Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:22 pm 

Replies: 19
Views: 386


cbd wrote:
Could Be Worse Like Chronic Masturbation

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Why are you looking at me?

I seem to have found the solution to the the problem I stated in this thread. :wink:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:18 pm 

Replies: 111
Views: 2,126


cberg wrote:
I don't really feel like living all the time worried about my image would do anything make me seem confident anyway.

Confident people don't worry about their image. That's the point.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Deciding to leave for good

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:16 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 675


The dating scene on this board isn't all that great anyway. Probably a poor choice of venue for someone so focused on finding a partner.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:12 pm 

Replies: 111
Views: 2,126


^ This seems to have gone over my head. Who suggested that confidence = dominance?

Confidence =/= dominance.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 6:58 pm 

Replies: 111
Views: 2,126


I'm tired of the insistence that I must find ways to show off confidence to get anywhere. It's not that confidence itself is the goal, but it is an important desirable trait. Lack of desirable traits = lack of success finding partners. https://www.google.com/search?q=why+is+confidence+desirable We ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do women view me?

 Post subject: Re: How do women view me?
Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 6:46 pm 

Replies: 45
Views: 1,123


^ :lol:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 2:48 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


Rexi and I talked some more about the fears and anxieties that caused the need for this thread and the understanding that I got is that my lack of firmness regarding some positions in life causes panic for her. We've had a talk about the fact that I'm not in a position to make some of those major de...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 1:00 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


I think this thread works better if someone who sounds like they have the same username as I do is a fictional character. At this point I am much too mischaracterized here that causes many posts now to come to conclusions that are outright false. I don't mean a little bit false. I mean completely an...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is this girl at work interested in me ?

Posted: 26 Apr 2021, 5:22 pm 

Replies: 52
Views: 5,152


kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep....that's the reality.

He can get in more trouble than she can, most likely.

That's the reality.

He's an accountant. He needs to earn a living. Doing something to make a point can be really stupid.

Are you trying to hold him... accountable? :lol:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is this girl at work interested in me ?

Posted: 26 Apr 2021, 5:07 pm 

Replies: 52
Views: 5,152


I'd act on it. She sounds like she's easygoing so I'd pick casual activities with her rather than favoring formal dating. Yeah, workplace stuff isn't ideal, but if you feel good about it then by all means. If you two are comfortable speaking frank then it's worth getting an understanding of the situ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 26 Apr 2021, 1:19 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


I'll reiterate that this is all largely a mischaracterization, hyperbole, followed by extrapolation of it. We have problems like any other couple that wants to get together for something more. Except for us it's been more difficult, because of what we are. The logistical side of it I can solve. The ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 26 Apr 2021, 1:08 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


Somewhat off topic but not really, and again maybe (probably...) this is a silly suggestion, but I find that video games sometimes help me emotionally process these sorts of "major life things" when plain reasoning doesn't seem to help (Night in the Woods was one of those games for me). I...
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