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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Starting dating |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2018, 11:47 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 440
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| Have you made any move on this girl, given her a compliment, tried to grab her hand, kiss her etc? If you don't she will automatically consider you a friend. Men who are interested in more than friendship make sure to let the girl know and she sounds pretty interested in you to me. Of course if you'... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Were you a clingy child? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2018, 1:30 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,076
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| Oh yeah. I did not allow friends I made to have any other friends as a kid. It didn't work very well. I'm still like this but I have toned it down and I never display it but I am terribly jealous and i'm guessing it has to do with separation anxiety. I wouldn't say that I am a very clingy person wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Friends zone and not understanding women |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2018, 8:52 am
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Replies: 98
Views: 9,195
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| The only aspie guys I know i'm friends with. One of them told me once that he had feelings for me but I was very surprised because he'd never even tried to make a move at me. This is very common with aspergers I think based on all aspies that I have met including myself. If you don't make a move the... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why is Asperger's so much more common these days? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2018, 8:35 am
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Replies: 135
Views: 4,101
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| Maybe aspie is the new NT in the future? ;) That'd be pretty cool. Aspergers was known of when I was growing up too yet it went unnoticed in me. I was never sent to a special ed class yet all teachers I had struggled with knowing how to get through to me and how to make me socialize right with the o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this an "aspie" moment? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2018, 2:20 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 792
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| I would've reacted the same, definietely. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men Are Confusing |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2018, 9:20 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 1,543
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| Dating websites are like that. I've met great people on them but that's pure luck because lots of people especially in their 20s I think aren't very serious or ready for commitment and they're just having fun or being online swiping and texting matches out of boredom. He was probably talking to othe... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Why do ghosts have to be scary if they exist? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2018, 9:40 am
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Replies: 114
Views: 1,416
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| I've had many ghost experiences but I am not afraid of ghosts. I've even captured voices on recordings when no one's been at home. I do these things out of pure curiosity. Ghosts are humans who have passed on but gotten stuck or chosen to stay here. They may be confused, sad and some may even be ang... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you be willing to enter a sexless relationship? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2018, 9:18 am
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Replies: 137
Views: 2,944
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| I've been in sexless relationships and it has been my decision. For me I haven't felt comfortable with that sort of intimacy and i'm not sure I ever will but I feel more comfortable at the thought of it now than I have before. Plus i'm not asexual - I experience sexual emotions and desires and I don... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need Advice On Men |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2018, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 525
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| They want to spend time with you and even if they're busy they will make time. If they're not interested they will use any excuse they can to not hang out. Always look at their actions. I once dated a guy who claimed I was the one etc. but would use any excuse he could to avoid me in person. He was ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you get referred to as "cute" or "adorable"? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2018, 10:41 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 454
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| It happens but I don't take it as a compliment. More as an insult. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Why do people say mentally ill people are strong? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2018, 9:05 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 2,122
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Because you need to be in strong in order to battle mental illness everyday.
As for the comment about the knife, yes that was sarcasm. It's common to not understand sarcasm when you're autistic. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: You know what I hate about the holidays? |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2018, 8:43 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 679
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| Things get stressful, and you have to have a good mood throughout the whole holidays. That's annoying. Plus no alone time. But in general I think it's nice, I enjoy the holidays. Nothing is ever perfect. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The worst thing a bully has done to you |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2018, 8:07 am
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Replies: 417
Views: 52,130
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| I was bullied for 9 years of my life and that was during my first 9 school years. It was mostly only the girls in my class who bullied me, the boys ignored me which I did not mind. I was extremely shy but I tried to make friends with the other girls my own way. Occasionally i'd say something to them... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Does anyone here have ADHD? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,444
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| I have ADD but close enough I guess. I struggle with focus and can never focus on anything, I literally have to force myself to focus. I also struggle getting started on things. I think ADD is the reason I don't really have a special interest because that would require me to be able to focus on some... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Had aspie girlfriend taken from me by her parents. |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018, 1:35 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 1,961
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| I'm very sorry to hear that. Her mother is probably just trying to protect her, and she's not 18 so she doesn't have much to say really. I'm sure you're a good guy who really loves and cares about your girlfriend (I hope) and in that case you could try talking to her mother and tell her how you feel... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm wasting my life |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018, 1:26 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 362
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| You can change anytime, there is always other options. I also have social anxiety and mild depression and I did not have any friends until age 20 I think. I made friends online (because I don't approach people in person) and I see them in person as often as we have the time and the money and inbetwe... |
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