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Forum: The Haven Topic: I can't stand criticism older people get for having kids |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2024, 2:24 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 134
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| I seem to think this one of the reasons I feel I ''have'' to find a partner and start a family sooner rather than later because I seem to also feel that those who have kids in their 20s and 30s get happy congratulations from family, friends and others but older people who have children will still ge... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Keep trying to make up for lost time |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2024, 11:54 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 104
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| I seem to feel that because of the pandemic, a year or two years of life has been wasted and I feel this is another reason why I am feeling this need in my head to ''rush'' things and do things in order to catch up. I haven't been abroad to somewhere since February 2019 when I went with my dad and s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Are those around me with kids are more grown up than me? |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2024, 2:14 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 125
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| I don't know why but for some strange reason or another, I seem to feel as though other people around me who have kids are more ''grown up'' or ''adult'' than me because I don't have any and those people include my sister who has one, and my stepmum who has a son with 3 kids and a daughter with 2 ki... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why have kids knowing that the tantrums, stress etc with it? |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2024, 11:53 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 164
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| There are times when kids come across as adorable and put a smile on my face but I do see some that scream, shout, have tantrums, always want your attention etc especially if they are toddlers like my 4 year old nephew. Yesterday there were a couple of times where he kept entering my room, seeing wh... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do I try too hard to ''fit in'' ? |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2024, 11:47 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 244
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| I seem to think that sometimes when I have times when I try to make myself fit in with everyone else around me, I forget I am autistic even though I know a part of me knows I have. I still didn't feel like I fitted in even in some social groups I went to where other autistic people met because many ... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Name a villain who falls to their death |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2024, 12:38 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 632
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| I watched a compilation of videos of villains from films, TV etc falling to their demise. It does seem morbid but it makes me think it must be the most common end for a bad guy/girl in film and TV culture. It doesn't matter if your choices are human, animal or whatever. My one I can name is Hans Gru... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It feels like there is no one available my age to date |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2024, 8:21 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 785
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| I know this sounds ridiculous and that this is untrue but it feels that way. I mean I seem to think a lot of people who are over 30 are now married or in a long term relationship and possibly have kids. I mean have have a sister who is 30, is seeing someone on and off and has a 4 year old son. I ha... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: What are the advantages of dictatorships |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2024, 10:52 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 797
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| Usually I tend to think that the disadvantages outweigh any advantages a dictatorship has. It surprises me why in some countries, past authoritarian leaders like Stalin and Franco are still revered in Russia and Spain. The dictator of Portugal, Antonio Salazar was ranked as the ''Greatest Portuguese... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It feels like there is no one available my age to date |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2024, 9:18 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 785
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| I know this sounds ridiculous and that this is untrue but it feels that way. I mean I seem to think a lot of people who are over 30 are now married or in a long term relationship and possibly have kids. I mean have have a sister who is 30, is seeing someone on and off and has a 4 year old son. I hav... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I stop feeling like my time is ''running out'' ? |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2024, 12:38 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 663
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| I seem to think that not only am I doing this thing of trying to compare myself to others my age, having kids, getting married and so on. But I seem worry that doing it 10 years from now would be ''out of the question'' or ''too late'' to do it and a lot of people seem to do it still in their 20s an... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I rid myself of these "rushing" thoughts ? |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2024, 12:07 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 593
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| I'm sorry I write threads which seem just as similar as the last one but I seem to feel sometimes there are things missing which I may not have addressed in previous threads. I just seem to find it hard to try and wrestle with these thoughts that life is "passing me by" or "time is ru... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Feels like everyone wants to start a business |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2024, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,039
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| I seem to think I see a lot of adverts (commercials) about business or how to start on your own business and hearing from other people who have their own business and so on. I remember doing business studies at school but I didn't find it interesting and it didn't aspire me to start one but it just ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Missing out on things on my days off work |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2024, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 678
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| I don't know why but when I have days working, I feel better than I sometimes do on my days off. I seem to think other people are doing a lot more exciting and interesting things (parties, music gigs, nice restaurants, going up to London or somewhere abroad for the Easter holidays etc) on their days... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Forgetting something and then other people get it for me |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2024, 11:59 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 616
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| I sometimes feel like I hate myself for forgetting to get something and after a number of times of being forgetful, other people go out of their way to do it for me. I feel like I should be grateful but I still end up feeling bad and annoyed at myself for being forgetful. I've recently been forgetti... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I sometimes seem to hate being autistic |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2024, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 708
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| I know hate sounds like a strong word to use but that's how I feel right now. I feel like I like sometimes I hate the way I sound if I were to hear the sound of my voice as though it doesn't sound like the "usual" voice of someone, I seem to think it sounds like someone trying to mimic or ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Should high streets become ghost towns ? |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2024, 9:55 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 732
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| The thing is I like working where I work but sometimes I hate seeing empty darkened stores standing opposite from us. To be honest it saddens me sometimes and makes me sometimes consider whether I should re locate to another store somewhere else like in a shopping centre like Bluewater near London o... |
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