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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feel blue after returning from abroad or a day out |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: Yesterday, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 34
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| It felt nice going to Copenhagen in December and being in a nice comfy hotel room to myself and popping out in the evenings for a meal, a drink etc. Now I'm back home and having thoughts that I'll never return to places I've been to. The news was on TV earlier which talked about depressing stuff goi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do other people feel they'll regret not doing something? |
| chris1989 |
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Posted: Yesterday, 10:39 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 22
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| I've seen similar questions being put on other forums like Reddit who talk about things similar to what I've spoken about such as worrying they'll regret not doing something when they are young because otherwise they'll never do it when they are older. I seem to find myself falling into this compari... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: A part of me doesn't want to leave Copenhagen |
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Posted: Yesterday, 1:22 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 76
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| I've been in Copenhagen for three days for my dad's birthday and today we are flying back to England but I don't feel happy returning despite having to go back to work tomorrow and back to seeing some dull things back home. Copenhagen seems like a nice place to go to.The people are friendly and has ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I want to deactivate a dating account but I've been blocked |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2024, 11:29 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 347
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| I'm off it now. I still seem to feel that dating apps are popular. I remember finding out before dating sites and apps were in infancy, 1 in 8 people had met someone online. I don't if it's decreased somewhat because I hear other people doing the same as me. I've used tinder but I hear people saying... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feel bad for being attracted to women younger than me |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2024, 11:16 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 245
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| "Women are most fertile in their teens and 20s. Their fertility begins to drop, begins to decline in their 30s, while the chances of them conceiving( which means getting pregnant) in their 40s are slim to none. It’s often argued and said that men are biologically attracted to younger women for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feel bad for being attracted to women younger than me |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2024, 3:54 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 245
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| How come it still gets frowned upon if an older man is seen with an younger woman ? I live with two people who met when they were 28 and 45, my mum and her partner Chris and they've been with each other since. I do sometimes find myself attracted to some older women but I seem to still prefer to dat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feel bad for being attracted to women younger than me |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2024, 1:00 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 245
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| As a 30+ year old man, I still find myself attracted to women in their early 20s. It makes me feel as though I should ONLY date and be attracted to women my own age but then what about men five years younger than me. Is it okay to date women in their mid 20s in their early 30s. It feels like one rul... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Feel bad for not being an extrovert |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2024, 3:04 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 125
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| I've seen people some of which I'm "friends" with on social media who post photos of themselves with five other people at a bar or at a party or on a day out somewhere and that just makes me feel like I've "missed out" or "wasted youth time" by not having as many as 5 f... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I sometimes enjoy my company but sometimes feel bad |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2024, 3:52 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 112
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| It irritates me when for generations we lived in a world where by your 20s you got married, had kids, and so on and that if you hadn't done that by 30 and beyond, you were "frowned upon" or seen as "strange". I know attitudes have changed now, but I still seem to think people ins... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Wasted time not being friends with people I wasn't friends |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2024, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 198
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| I seem to feel I've wasted my time not being friends with people I didn't befriend or wasn't friends with. Some of these people hung around in groups at school and played sports, played games etc and to some extent did that stuff outside school. My social skills were not as good then unlike now. Som... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Why does it seem to me like every man goes to the gym? |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2024, 4:22 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 128
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| When I say every man I mean men in their 20s, 30s etc. I feels as though there are more of these places now than there was maybe 10 years ago. I seem to think that is another thing I struggle with when fighting against a side of my brain that feels it wants to go to a gym but another part of me is n... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I sometimes feel that social media should never have existed |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2024, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 400
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| It does make me also think would I still be feeling at times lonesome as I do now if social media wasn't around and happier that it wasn't around? I don't know you chris1989 but I've read a fair few of your topics on WP and it seems to me deeply rooted in your psyche to compare yourself to others a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I sometimes feel that social media should never have existed |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2024, 10:01 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 400
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| I do sometimes feel that social media should never have been a thing because I seem to think it makes some people like me feel that we "have" to do things by a certain time and look and be a certain way. It does make me also think would I still be feeling at times lonesome as I do now if s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Worried I should have kids and finding my nephew annoying |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2024, 2:07 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 167
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| My sister and my mum have explained to me in the past, after my 4 year old nephew has one of his tantrums or hyper moments ''Well do you still want kids? That's what you have got to put up with.'' There have been times when he is not too bad but there are moments when he is very hyper, running and f... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do I mislead myself thinking that everyone has better... |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2024, 12:50 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 277
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| Lives than me ? That everyone is jumping around every day and night to music and partying, seeing lots of sights around the country and world and so on even though a part me knows that can't be entirely true as everyone has to go to work and pay bills etc. I always seem to find myself also feeling &... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Not interested in taking photos of myself anymore |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2024, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 263
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| Costs? Do you mean the cost of social activities that give you an opportunity to take interesting photos? I mean costs of subscribing to dating sites and apps. I wouldn't even bother with those things. Have you had a single date out of those dating sites or apps? No but I did speak to someone from ... |
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