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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Gender Pronouns at Work |
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Posted: 08 May 2021, 4:35 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,872
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| OK - now I know where you are coming from. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." I know this rhyme only because it's part of an endless number of English songs. From ACDC to Rihanna ... Political correctness is a very female thing for not hurting the emotion... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Gender Pronouns at Work |
| quite an extreme |
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Posted: 07 May 2021, 6:32 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,872
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| Seems more reasonable to smack transphobic trolls who bully well-respected posters off of the site. Because of KT67? I liked her but didn't realized her problems. I'm not responsible for those so get lost with it. I'm not empathetic so get lost with any expectations that I should be it. What do you... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Gender Pronouns at Work |
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Posted: 05 May 2021, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,872
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Soliloquist wrote: MrsPeel wrote: So I've put (she/her or they/them) Just don't tell the cat.
Seems right of the cat for such an idiotic statement.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women Are Rarely Direct With You About Not Being Interested |
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Posted: 05 May 2021, 1:45 pm
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Replies: 124
Views: 5,147
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| I may be wrong but I think it's just for friendzoning more guys because they are measuring their own attractivity on that and may be their social state. Not even few women like to rely on other people for their own advantages even if they don't consider them for mating. They can't keep a guy around ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
| quite an extreme |
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Posted: 03 May 2021, 2:14 am
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Replies: 111
Views: 3,885
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| Chimps are the only known animal apart from humans who like humping and masturbating for pleasure as well (not for reproduction). That's wrong. There are many more mammals like this. Dogs, dolphins, hyenas ... No animal has reproduction in mind if doing so. :wink: So it's always for pleasure only. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:41 pm
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Replies: 111
Views: 3,885
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| I have read some variation on this straight-single-guy-dating-advice a hundred times at least and seen the terms "alpha / beta" male a thousand times, the modern culture seems obsessed by it, in reality these terms come from zoology and were used to describe ape males -and- females. If a ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why I'm easily triggered by this lack of empathy BS |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:22 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,762
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| Empathy makes life easier but there are more important things than noticing and sharing the emotions of others. In case of my divorce both kids decided to stay with me. My son did say that the character counts more. I watched people becoming manipulated easily because of their empathy. Seems to make... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really confused. Never dated before. Help me? |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 5:25 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 627
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Sounds like he is shy. Be aware that he may not realize your emotions unless you are pretty much direct. Not even few people with Asperger's struggle with indirectness as well as realizing the feelings of others.  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I spend way too much time alone. |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 1,545
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Coffee? Remind me to "Jungs, noch Kaffee?" (Guys - how about a coffee?)
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: My Peers Who Still Stigmatize Me |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 9:46 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,207
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What advantages have men on the spectrum?
Not even few are always singled out and don't even have any real chance of a relationship in life.
And also emotions are less universal than you are expecting. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding Real Connection |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 7:28 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 840
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Should I? 
If it comes to autistic women - not even few otherwise stunning ones are lacking the common signals of sexual interest that are pretty normal for NT women who are usually actively trying to seduce their targets of interest. May be that you should consider that as an option? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I spend way too much time alone. |
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Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:36 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 1,545
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| I guess it's more of an introspective problem than a literal wall in front of me, I should actually go do some stuff today but it's not an easy feeling. Get out into the sun light where you can see some people. Try to keep a much to good mood and make yourself a nice Sunday! Life is to short to was... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I will never physically 'grow up' |
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Posted: 01 May 2021, 3:49 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 988
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| You are a woman who wants to be a guy? Not even few Asian girls are looking a bit child like. Are you into girls or guys despite of that? I once had a strange experience with a girl who did dress like a guy and did crush on me because of a smile. I didn't realized it because I thought her being a pu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do women view me? |
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Posted: 01 May 2021, 1:05 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 3,233
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| I've tried approaching women many times. I have never not gotten rejected. Does 'never not' of you mean 'always' ore 'never'? How women see you depends a lot on how you are acting. I can't even tell regarding myself too but I'm very aware that they nearly always have wrong expectations or get me ki... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and encoding facial emotions |
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Posted: 01 May 2021, 10:45 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 692
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| In my ASD test I got the lowest score my assessor had ever recorded for "Reading emotions in the eyes". It was first percentile and deemed a significant clinical risk for being conned, manipulated, exploited, etc. - which actually explains a lot about my life. Sorry to hear that. I did on... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and encoding facial emotions |
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Posted: 01 May 2021, 10:24 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 692
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| Wow, this makes a lot of sense. Generally when I am trying to read someone's face, it's like I am Sherlock scanning a room for clues (contracted eyebrows, narrowed nostrils, compressed lips = disgust/anger???) It takes several seconds (vs. a neurotypical's ability to read expressions in < 1 second)... |
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