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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it pointless to have sex just to say ''you've done it'' ? |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2022, 7:30 am
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Replies: 117
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| I would say the opposite. Saying "you have done it" is the exact reason *not* to have sex. Because that means you lost virginity. I walked into a movie "where the heart is" as my ex-girlfriend was watching it. I didn't know the rest of the movie, I just saw a scene with torn tedd... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: The reason Russian army is unprepared |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2022, 4:43 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I kinda skimmed over your long post...so maybe you answered this and I missed it but... What the fig do you mean when you say "in a country where military service is mandatory there is no point in training your army. Is there?" What difference does it make if they force you into the army ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: The reason Russian army is unprepared |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2022, 3:47 pm
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| While a lot of people talk about Russian army being unprepared, it never occurred to anyone the actual reason why. And no, that reason has nothing to do with anything that on the news today. It has to do with the situation that lasted from 1970-s all the way till today. You see, in Russia they have ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: I hate it how most people try to give advice constantly |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2022, 7:06 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I've gotten to the point where I avoid sharing personal details with people I meet because most people are in "I can fix everyone's problems!" mode. For me its the opposite. Nobody seems to care. Even when I *desperately wish* they could give me advice, they just don't. I don't know why. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2022, 11:29 am
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Replies: 54
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| I'm not gay (neither was he). Nor was he a friend, exactly. He was a neighbor with whom I had a lot of interaction and a friend of my parents'. Okay, thanks for clarifying. So how did you end the interaction with your neighbor? Did you basically change the place you live? Or are you still living ne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Of course. |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2022, 9:08 am
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Replies: 189
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| Recent new friend over the last 4-5 months. After discussing mutual attraction, we made out a few weeks back and then hooked up on new years. I'm not exactly his main type ((female) which is fine, we like what we like) But, it was incredibly hot - I think for both of us - and he's said they see a f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2022, 5:25 am
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Replies: 54
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| I once knew someone who kept giving me advice in an extremely tiring and hectoring way. He'd never stop talking about it. The advice wasn't necessarily bad (sometimes it was, not always), but I became very frustrated with him. Why? Because he never bothered to learn what interested me or what I act... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 8:31 pm
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Replies: 54
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| You think she shouldn't have her own goals in life Thats so not true. Whenever I had girlfriends I kept trying to convince them to go to university. And by the way they were all my age, they just chose not to go to university for whatever reason, and I was trying to convince them that better late t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 5:16 pm
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Replies: 54
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| In focusing on the doctors, you're overlooking what she wants for herself. And if that bothers you so much, you shouldn't date her. I am not just focusing on doctors, I am focusing on her too. I think ECT did damage to her brain and her brain would have been functioning better if she didn't have on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 5:12 pm
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Replies: 54
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| You are controlling Again, what is the evidence? Is it that usage of the word "compliant"? I thought I explained it was misunderstanding. If not that, what is another evidence? and have unrealistic demands and expectations of a potential partner to obey you. Obey me in what way? If I just... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 4:44 pm
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Replies: 54
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| Serious question: how do you date someone (for a few months) whom you have never met? I meet people long distance on dating site. And then I don't have money to buy plane ticket to meet them. What I usually do is wait for physics conference to occur in their location so that I can go there and get ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 4:40 pm
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| You look down on her for struggling with illness and attempting to treat it. I don't look down at her for the illness part. I am only looking down at her for the way she tries to treat it. If anything, this means that I respect people that have mental conditions, enough so as to be opposed to docto... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being judged for one isolated incident in a distant past |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2022, 2:46 pm
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| Also sounds like you are both horribly incompatible. You and her want different things. One example of many: She was up front in her profile that she wants to relocate to Greece and then you tried to convince her otherwise - dude; that's what she wants! Either you're on board with it or you're not ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Holocaust and others |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2022, 8:24 pm
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Replies: 11
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| If you are asking "why is holocaust important", that question is plain weird. I can answer this question with the question. Why is discussing its lack of importance, is important? If others are wasting time when they talk about holocaust, aren't you also wasting time when you are talking a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What does "lack of eye contact" refers to? |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2022, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 64
Views: 3,382
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| This is my own perspective on the eye contact thing. The lack of “eye contact” refers to a certain focus in communication. The focus is on the information - not on the meaningless and unnecessary cues (eye contact, unnecessary bodily gestures) that distract you from the actual message / information... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Working out as a Stim |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2022, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 10
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| My main go tos for home are rocking, pacing, and fidgets. I've been working out with my resistance band then I goy a kettle bell and its in the bed with me because I find it hard to stim there. Any other suggestions? I don't know what to think on this one. On the one hand its an advantage: you end ... |
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