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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do/did any of you feel not good about turning 40? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2024, 11:44 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,246
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| I turned 40 last week and I don't feel good about not having a independent paid job and I've never been to college or university. Do/did any of you feel not good about turning 40? |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2024, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 16,087
Views: 1,254,214
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| I just turned 40. I feel old and young at the same time I guess. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: over 40 |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2024, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 10,679
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| I just turned 40. I feel old and young at the same time. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I dont know directions at all |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2024, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,349
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| I don't understand directions or google maps! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it odd I don't like it when people give me sympathy? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2024, 2:52 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,745
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| It's no one's fault but I don't really like sympathy when I tell someone an problem I have. I feel I don't deserve sympathy and I would rather have a solution to a problem than a listening ear, which is why a counsellor would not be good for me. Do any of you feel the same way? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: 29 and never had a date |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2024, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,848
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| Try not to feel to bad about never dating anyone. I'm turning 40 in March and I haven't dated anyone since I was 22. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I have a question about virtual autism groups |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2024, 12:24 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 11,405
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| It's hard to know what to say. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I have a question about virtual autism groups |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2024, 11:33 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 11,405
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| Is it weird that in a virtual aspie group I'm often the last one to speak yet in real life/in person I'm often quite loud? I feel in the virtual group I have barley anything to say, yet in real life I have too much to say. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Could me having weird hair color effect getting a job? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2024, 2:48 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 6,420
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| Maybe working in a grocery store or Wal Mart. I'm on waitlist for an employment program for people with disabilities. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Could me having weird hair color effect getting a job? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2024, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 3
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| I have multiple colored punky hair. Could that effect me getting a job? I wonder if alot of people with alot of punky hair colours get hired. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it weird that I've considered not making more friends? |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2023, 6:21 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 29,941
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| I only have a few online friends and a few in person/real life friends. Is it weird that I given up on making real life friends? I don't like getting disappointed again and again. I highly doubt I will make anymore in person friends. My mental health is a priority meaning it's more important than ma... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do any of you feel in groups you don't know what to say? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2023, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 17,977
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| The ironic thing is in real life I'm quite loud when I speak but in these 2 groups that I've started (2 virtual autism groups) I'm very quiet because I don't know what to say. And I feel awkward when I don't know what to say and it can be complicated and I feel I can't win if I'm too loud and it bec... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Who here Is From New Zealand? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2023, 12:54 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 764
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| New Zealand accents are cool. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it common for some aspies to not like their condition ? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2023, 12:26 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 19,890
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| I don't like my condition at all and wish I could be at least fit in better and have more friends and a paid job. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it weird that I've considered not making more friends? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2023, 6:50 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 29,941
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| I've had very little success at making friends so I've considered not trying to look for more friends, especially with in person friends. However, I might try to make online friends. Is that weird? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Does anyone not like it when told they will make friends? |
| catpiecakebutter |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2023, 8:17 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 40,438
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| I'm in a new virtual group and it bothers me when my close friend tells me I will probably make friends in the group. Here's thing: I have some online friends but only 2 in person friends and I don't see them too often. So I recently started joining a online aspie group and and I feel like saying &q... |
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