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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you control NOT falling in love with someone? |
| hartzofspace |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2020, 6:13 pm
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| Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him. That's how you're programmed. A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen: It definitely is! :!: Wow, Where did you come from? You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen: I haven't been here in awhile. :) So, you came b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you control NOT falling in love with someone? |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2020, 2:30 pm
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| Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him. That's how you're programmed. A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen: It definitely is! :!: Wow, Where did you come from? You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen: I haven't been here in awhile. :) So, you came b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you control NOT falling in love with someone? |
| hartzofspace |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2020, 10:41 pm
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Pepe wrote: hartzofspace wrote: Pepe wrote: The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.
That's how you're programmed. A gross generalisation, dude.  It definitely is!  Wow, Where did you come from? You certainly keep a low profile.
I haven't been here in awhile.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you control NOT falling in love with someone? |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2020, 7:41 pm
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Pepe wrote: The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.
That's how you're programmed. A gross generalisation, dude.
It definitely is! |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Weird feelings after movies? |
| hartzofspace |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2016, 2:18 pm
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| Long ago I knew someone who, when I've looked back on my memories of him now, I feel that he may have very likely been on the spectrum, but back then I didn't know anything about it even in regards to myself (it was 1993). This guy used to talk about he wished that movie theaters had a quiet room w... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 8:25 pm
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| Glad to hear that it ended well! I had a similar run in, many years ago when my daughter was a pre-teen. Fortunately I had a friend who set them straight, since she had once been head of CPS in our town. Something innocent had been stretched way out of proportion. So glad nothing lastingly bad came ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2015, 12:48 pm
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| @DeaconsBlues; Oh...My...God. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2015, 2:24 pm
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| I enjoyed reading that memory, Merle! I have so many good memories of how books I read as a child influenced me, but the two that come to mind first, were Jane Eyre, and the Little House on the Prairie series. I often realize that I have patterned some responses in life based upon those two books, e... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2015, 1:35 pm
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| Hi, Merle! It's great to hear from you too! Yes, I have seen my mother in the mirror, too. Sigh. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: The Dino-Aspie Ex-Café (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky) |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2015, 3:15 pm
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| Hello, everyone! I didn't know the Cafe had re=opened! I will pour myself a cup of tea and help myself to a gluten free muffin. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Incredibly insecure and hypersexual friend |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 5:35 pm
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Replies: 27
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| There might be deeper psychological issues who lies underneath. Like shame and self-hatred. The sexual behavier can function as a way of selfharming. Bingo. It's self-destructive. I've had a few female friends who needed constant male attention to feel like they were worth anything. Smart, attracti... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What you will NEVER understand about men |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 2:08 pm
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| Just for the record, the reason that toilet seats should be kept down, is so that a female who has to pee in a hurry doesn't land on the hard, unforgiving and slippery toilet rim. Does that actually happen? As a guy, I do have to sit for some toilet activities, but I have never in my life accidenta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Incredibly insecure and hypersexual friend |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 2:06 pm
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| Well... uhm... aren´t a lot of the guys on here sexually frustrated? Yes, they are. And I say to those who object to my opinion, well if the shoe fits - wear it! You're being offensive and presumptuous, can't males here say their opinions without being judged by you as sexual frustrated? Actually, ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Would like to hear from Asperger adults 40+ Special Insights |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 1:52 pm
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| I didn't hear of Asperger's until I was over forty, and didn't get a diagnoses until I was forty six. It was a major defrag of my internal systems, and I even went through a grieving process. But after that, I found it easier to accept myself because now I understood what made me tick. When I was ab... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: very shy around girls |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 1:43 pm
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| Also, if the conversation about the weekend goes well, you could ask a simple question or two, such as what kind of music does she like, or what's her favorite food. These could be great topics of conversation. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Incredibly insecure and hypersexual friend |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2013, 11:35 pm
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Cafeaulait wrote: Well... uhm... aren´t a lot of the guys on here sexually frustrated?
Yes, they are. And I say to those who object to my opinion, well if the shoe fits - wear it! |
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