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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Do all men ''have'' to be and look muscular ? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 11
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| Truth. They hire people who are abnormally fit especially for those commercials, and even then they make them bulk up, diet like crazy, or other stuff just to get the job, and then comes the photoshopping to achieve this image of perfection that isn't even there. Plus they make those people stand i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why NTs might find autistic people annoying |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 46
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| I think you both jumped to conclusions over what I am saying. NTs operate with subtlety. it's the undertones, doublespeak, undercurrent and subtle actions that speak volumes. The days when somebody will directly point things out are largely gone. This is where the human race is soon going to get in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why NTs might find autistic people annoying |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 46
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| easy...she opened up her vulnerabilities to you and your timing (with your daughter) was interpreted by the woman as you not wanting to deal with her opening up about her pain seriously. Yet another reason online relationships are more likely to lead to misunderstandings. I didn't even know the wom... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Never worn makeup, try it? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 35
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| So the second thing I tried on my face was primer only. Sooooo much better! Positives - It made my skin look and feel soft and dewy (that seems to be the buzzword these days) - It kind of blurred my moles and blemishes - It wasn't thick and like armour plating, it's a totally different composition/f... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Never worn makeup, try it? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 35
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| Sometimes I'll wear a little bit of dark red lipstick if I'm not going to be eating soon when I go out. That's another thing that annoys me! Anything I put on my lips goes into my food and drink! Ewwwwwwwwww! Why do people put things on their lips that will go into what they eat and drink? Surely t... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Never worn makeup, try it? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 35
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babybird wrote: Makeup makes me feel like I've got a dirty face.
I know what you mean! Every time I scratch my nose or something, a bit of makeup/dirt comes off  |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do any of you ladies handle with getting older? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 56
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| yes indeed , some mirrors ..need to be retired ... :D .. All those years being nice and giving a nice warm home to that mirror.. the least it might do is be nice to you .. :D ..Kitlily. Yes indeed! haha. Although since I discovered Dressing Your Truth I look a lot better and the mirror likes me now. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Do all men ''have'' to be and look muscular ? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 11
Views: 98
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alwaysRootingForTheAI wrote: No.
Some women I have spoken to actually feel uncomfortable around more muscular guys and actually find it threatening.
^You are 100% right here, well said! I prefer more normal looking men- not body builders or models etc. I like approachable, unassuming, kind men with a good sense of humour. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why NTs might find autistic people annoying |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 46
Views: 516
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| Not quite. The biggest insult you can do to an NT is be passive aggressive. Washing the dishes was perceived as being passive aggressive to show up the other person's lack of attention in cleaning cutlery/utensils. Okay but for that to be true then washing dishes or doing any household chore would ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why NTs might find autistic people annoying |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 46
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| That isn't a NT person, that is someone with a personality disorder. That is exactly the sort of thing my narcissist mother used to do- accuse me of doing something normal just to annoy or criticise her. I'm glad you still haven't got that roommate! Not quite. The biggest insult you can do to an NT... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Favorite social media site(s)? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 26
Views: 259
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That's really helpful information Bee, thanks. 
I probably wouldn't make friends on Tumblr, I'm far too old at 54 for the young crowd.
Another one people recommend is Dreamwidth, what's that like? |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Has 'Chat GPT' proven helpful? |
| KitLily |
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,067
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| Has it been useful being Autistic? Yes - I've found it very helpful when trying to figure out what other people mean, or trying to figure out what someone meant or might have implied when they said something. I will copy-paste snippets of conversations or messages that I don't understand, and it wi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Non-autistics are more obsessed, and force them onto others |
| KitLily |
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Posted: Yesterday, 3:09 pm
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Replies: 28
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| I've heard downright terrifying things about football in Argentina - some of the fan clubs are essentially criminal gangs, and people have actually been assassinated over football. I know of a Colombian who was assassinated because he scored an own goal I think. Does that happen in Argentina too? T... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Favorite social media site(s)? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: Yesterday, 3:05 pm
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Replies: 26
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| What's the ratio of trolls and bots on Tumblr? That's what I'm concerned about: dealing with an onslaught of trolls. I joined Reddit and I have to be careful dodging trolls, I only post about Neighbours there. I had to turn off my follower button on there because naked women advertising their blogs ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Favorite social media site(s)? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: Yesterday, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 26
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bee33 wrote: have been on Tumblr for 10 years (3 different blogs at different times) and I literally do not know one single person. You don't have to be social on Tumblr.
What is the point of Tumblr then? Isn't it social media where people are supposed to be social? Sorry, I'm confused. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Favorite social media site(s)? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: Yesterday, 12:45 pm
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Replies: 26
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Well that is nice, 2 people like me!
I'm more likely to defect to Mastodon as I'm already on there! |
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