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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why people think you're not "complete" without a partner? |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2024, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 436
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| I do get irritated when some people especially some people in my family whom I love like my dad who have sometimes nagged me about finding someone and I feel like it just reinforces the over awareness of being single in my 30s and makes me feel bad. I know he maybe saying it from his perspective be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 67 and never had a gf |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2024, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 89
Views: 2,570
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| So in the industrial revolution, is was not unheard of for lots of men to remain lifelong bachelors, never have any relationships? In the Victorian era the spread of prostitution throughout the industrialised world was so widespread that it was not really necessary to settle down to find female com... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie dating success stories |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2024, 9:37 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 3,872
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^That is the hard & challenging part!! !
How to maintain a relationship or marriage once it is created |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Autism and sexual preferences |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2024, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 109
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I am not really into blowjobs or being fingered vaginally
But I'm fine with most other aspects and components of sex |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Noisy neighbor |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2024, 9:40 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 504
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| My next door neighbor has been using a power washer that is powered by a generator to wash the driveway that is alongside my house. It is the loudest thing I have ever heard, something like a motorcycle revving up. It's louder than chainsaws, wood chippers or multiple leaf blowers. And he operates ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: After looking at a pregnancy & childbirth book today I am... |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2024, 9:37 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 90
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| You may not be emotionally mature enough to have a child yet. I don't have any children so I don't know from personal experience. I feel that you might be on to something here But I am also trying to save my body from getting screwed up beyond ALL repair!! ! Epistionomy or C-section, either way the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie dating success stories |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2024, 8:04 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 3,872
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funeralxempire wrote: Mikurotoro92 wrote: It is true that this is my first actual relationship that will eventually lead to marriage
HOWEVER, this is NOT (I repeat not! ! !) my first romantic relationship ever!
I have dated and had boyfriends in past Thanks for the correction. 
Sure |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: After looking at a pregnancy & childbirth book today I am... |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2024, 7:21 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 90
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| even MORE petrified and put off from having biological children unless it is through a surrogate!! ! I refuse to put my body through all of that trauma! In the book they actually showed detailed drawings and pictures of the different childbirth procedures like an epistionomy and the expulsion of the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie dating success stories |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2024, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 3,872
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| I will post mine I am Autistic and people thought because of that I would NEVER find love, get married, have children, etc Well...guess what?!? I am now engaged for marriage!! ! ! ! ! Take that naysayers!! ! i assume you dated a lot in your 20s You've been here long enough to be familiar with her p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie dating success stories |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2024, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 3,872
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I will post mine
I am Autistic and people thought because of that I would NEVER find love, get married, have children, etc
Well...guess what?!?
I am now engaged for marriage!! !! !!
Take that naysayers!! ! |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex and nudity in entertainment media |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2024, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 279
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| I was watching a video about the harms of contraception (birth control) and how that is contributing to our current epidemic of abortions They said we need to do away with the hook-up culture and return sex to being a sacred act that should ONLY be utilized within the context of marriage, which I ag... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are relationships "work"? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2024, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 505
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Yes but that is what makes them rewarding and worth it!! !
Relationships (romantic or otherwise) require sacrifices, communication and love
Without these 3 things the relationship will collapse & break down! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you think causes meltdowns? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2024, 2:54 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 832
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Over-stimulation in addition to:
-Having to contend and deal with disappointments and failures
I just had one today because I want to get married and start producing kids RIGHT NOW but have to wait 2 more years!! ! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I stop being ashamed of being 30+ and single? |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2024, 11:03 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 706
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I was once in this position but I got out of it by getting into a real romantic relationship!! !
Sometimes it's not that the seed is planted in the wrong place but in my case I think it just took a little while for the seed to grow
We do NOT have to play victim to our circumstances anymore! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No job means a gf is out of the question? |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2024, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 98
Views: 2,666
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| I may socialise at pub on weekend but I also have meeting people volunteering during the week which is a great start It's nice to do a mix of things I actually kind of agree Jamesy, and you do actually make a valid point. And ultimately you do what makes you happy. But that's why when we want somet... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex and nudity in entertainment media |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2024, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 279
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| I agree that violence is a much bigger issue and that it strangely seems much more tolerated as a perfectly okay part of TV shows and movies. Streaming shows that are not on TV are often exceptionally violent, so much so that I can't watch them and don't want to watch them, and find it hard to unde... |
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