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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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| So how do you personally feel about getting married these days I'm only asking because you're attitude towards relationships seems to have shifted during the last couple of years I still want and desire it but...I am being VERY cautious and careful about rushing into something I may truly not be re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Replies: 94
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| Yeah someone told me that getting into a relationship with someone is like gambling I've not quite worked out what that means but I can sort of understand it It's all about your feelings and that innit You never know what you are going to get!! ! The whole purpose of marriage and relationships in g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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| Oh man yeah I get it It's easy to find yourself trapped in something and then you feel an obligation to be kind to the other person I think it's hard to be a human being where relationships are concerned Yes, if you invest too much into a relationship you run the high risk of it backfiring ! !! Thi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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| Dunno mate What's that It's what @cyberdora described Sunk-cost fallacy refers to investing resources into something so much that it makes it harder to walk away from even if the idea no longer makes sense Like if you were in a 10-year marriage but you decide you no longer love your partner Do you ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Replies: 94
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| Yeah I don't know how people have time to find love and to invest in long term relationships Everything these days seems to be about speed and instant gratification That's from my personal observations btw I can't speak for what other people observe More specifically the effort needed to invest in ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: My classic video game music remix album project |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Replies: 28
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| I forgot to mention I recently bought DAW software so shouldn't be too long now... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: More Americans are identifying as neurodivergent.... |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: Yesterday, 7:21 pm
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| I was officially diagnosed as "Autistic" when I was about 3 years old I believe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 21
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Like I said previously, we must separate the desires of marriage and parenthood
Only then perhaps we will start to see the bigger picture... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 6:41 pm
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| You must have that built-in desire for marriage and children Yes, it isn't just social conditioning. We are genetically programmed to want relationships and have children. Some people end up not wanting one or the other but they are a minority. If we didn't have that pre-programmed desire, the huma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Societal Conditioning about Marriage!! ! |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 5:27 pm
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| I agree, but unfortunately that's the way society is and will continue to be. If being single and childfree was shown more in a positive light in the media more people would feel comfortable with where they are in life. Read up on evolutionary psychology. It explains all of this. It isn't social co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 10:41 pm
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Replies: 21
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| You must have that built-in desire for marriage and children, otherwise it doesn't make sense to suffer through ALL the required steps needed to reach that point!! ! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 21
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| The reason it's so hard for a woman to divorce her husband is because of all the initial investment put into the relationship starting in the dating phase ! !! The whole entire purpose of marriage is to create and build up an emotional connection to your partner This happens over time but the way I ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: How to fight boss in The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword? |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 6:36 pm
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| Unlocked a new mini-game based on the mine-cart sequence in the Shipyard of the Lanayru Sand Sea, it's pretty fun but challenging!! ! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 5:09 pm
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Replies: 94
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I am speaking from experience but plushies CANNOT replace actual human interaction or romantic relationships! !!
Tried that with my SpongeBob SquarePants plush...but he couldn't give me what I wanted 
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 2:48 am
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Replies: 21
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But I feel that actual BIGGEST issue with marriage and motherhood and what makes them so hard to walk away from is the emotional investment into the partnership! !!
Yep...looks like the sunk-cost fallacy rears its ugly head yet again?
The sunk-cost fallacy has everything to do with this though! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 12:08 am
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Replies: 21
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| If you separate the desires of marriage and children the choice should become easier @chris1989... |
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