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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Lack of a thought process in social interactions |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 2
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| I've been thinking in my spare time lately about how I believe I lack a definitive thought process in social interactions, and I wonder if this is a trademark characteristic of slight autism/aspergers. For example, I've read many books on how to overcome anxiety, and they all follow the same premise... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men: I'm curious.... |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 04 Nov 2010, 12:22 pm
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Replies: 59
Views: 8,207
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| When those of you on here speak of women in terms of dating (wanting to date, or thinking has it easier with dating and so on), what type of women are you envisioning? Post a photo of a woman who resembles the image you have in your mind. Interesting post, Chronos. Although I'm not interested in da... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Finally, a book made for us! |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2010, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,006
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| I've recently acquired a book specifically tailor made to adults who have Aspergers. The author himself has Aspergers, and he has written a book on how to deal with Aspergers and the anxiety that occurs with being slightly autistic: http://www.amazon.com/Asperger-Syndrome-Anxiety-Successful-Manageme... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Lack of a thought process |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 10:04 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 6,714
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| I am writing this post to see if anyone can relate. I honestly believe that I don't have a thought process inside my head. What I mean is that I don't internally think and have words that go across my head. I often find that words come out of my mouth, without me cognitively thinking about it, almos... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypicals- What do you think about people with Aspergers |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2010, 6:57 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 11,181
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| I do not like using such a general and unflattering label as "neurotypical", but considering that it defines someone who isn't autistic from a person who is slightly autistic/high functioning autistic person (Aspie), I think the use of it is appropriate in this context. I would like to know what peo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2010, 12:36 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 11,096
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| the mystery man method is not teaching you to get haircuts or learn basic social skills. it teaches men to maipulate women into bed (or in the case of the OP, into a relationship). if a man wants to learn social skills to commuicate with women better (or meet women more effectively), there are many... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2010, 12:29 pm
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Replies: 110
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| It doesn't matter. Manipulation is manipulation. The ends don't justify the means... Toad of Steel, I understand what you're saying, and from an ethical standpoint, manipulation is a bad thing. But let's be honest, this whole finding a relationship pursuit, it isn't a fair game. There are guys like... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 11:05 pm
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Replies: 110
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| I agree with your points though, Metal Man, and unfortunately I don't think many autistic men have it in them to turn into the kind of guy that women want. I have no problem admitting that I don't. I could fake the funk for a while - based on a woman being physically attracted to me and what I've l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 10:46 pm
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Replies: 110
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| Some of you just don't get it. The whole purpose of the "Mystery Method, etc." is to give a man the social skills needed to meet and interact with women socially. It doesn't matter if you are just looking to get laid or find a long term girlfriend or wife. You still need to have the social skills t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2010, 12:21 am
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Replies: 110
Views: 11,096
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| Yes, but there is also another thing that women want from a man that doesn't seem to get discussed in these sort of threads. Many women also want men they can do things with. If whatever popped into your head when you read that last sentence was sexual, that's a hefty chunk of the problem, and it's... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 11:17 am
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Replies: 110
Views: 11,096
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| i think part of the problem is you are assuming you know what all 10 women want, and that they all want the same thing. stop thinking of women as a collective and consider them as individuals each with their own wants and desires. some women WILL want the shy, quiet guy, some WILL want the playful,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 110
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| This looks like a topic on how to "catch a woman". If you're looking for short relationships, or some sex, by all means, the manipulation (mystery?) method has many websites and books for sale explaining exactly how to do it. They all call it something else, and those books cost alot of money. By a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 1:00 pm
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Replies: 110
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| i quite liked your post, until i got to this part. Women do not like, nor deserve, to be manipulated. Nice guys don't manipulate. Manipulation is lying. Trying to build a romantic relationship on a foundation of lies will leave you buried in the rubble when it collapses. I think part of the problem... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 11:41 am
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Replies: 1,242
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My goodness, is this post still going on and on? Take one generic subject and see it grow into a long and drawn out discussion  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Nice Guy Dileema |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 11:39 am
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Replies: 110
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| This is a very generic topic that has been rehashed numerous times in the Love and Dating forum. However, I do think it is a subject very applicable to a lot of guys on here, who are generally nice and are frustrated that their romantic endeavors never seem to work out. I talked with someone who sai... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What drives people to pursue romantic love? |
| AutisticMalcontent |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2010, 10:55 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,943
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| I know I've done a post like this a while back ago, its probably gotten lost in a sea of posts :P So I decided I'd make another post and see what people say. Besides, it is tedious finding an old post you wrote a long time ago. The reason I'm writing this post is because I notice a lot of people on ... |
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