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Forum: The Haven Topic: What is wrong with me? |
| Kaufmancab51 |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 3:31 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 426
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| I just need to get this out and I don't have many people whom I can talk to about it. I just got home from a bar (no drinking) and I noticed that while people were constantly moving around and interacting with each other, I had remained in an area by myself and I began to notice my anxiety kick in b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Displaying affection and ASD |
| Kaufmancab51 |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2015, 11:32 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 821
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Ask them!
The best way (IMO) to know whether or not a male with asperger's is comfortable with hugs and kisses is to just ask! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding People On WP |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2015, 7:56 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,110
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| Would be interesting to have, but last time I was in an AS/AS relationship, she couldn't let go of the past and cheated on me for a one night stand with her ex. I want to go back out there, but I'm afraid I'll end up in the hospital after another heartbreak as a result of piled-on stress (work &... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Singles Depression Leading to Death? |
| Kaufmancab51 |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2014, 11:19 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,276
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| I feel sorry for you. Having your partner cheat on you can be a real blow to your self esteem and faith in humanity. What are you doing on a daily basis? Are you filling in your life in a way that makes you feel satisfied with it? I am a retail store manager, which sucks the motivation out of me a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Singles Depression Leading to Death? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2014, 10:46 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,276
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| It seems as if through this recent wave of depression, I have been experiencing some weird things going on with myself that is starting to make me even more uncertain. For those of you who aren't familiar, I was recently involved in an AS/AS relationship that lasted a little under 8 months. She admi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you cope with constant rejections |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2014, 12:26 am
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Replies: 57
Views: 7,507
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| Idk. I've mostly just accepted that I'm not ment to be loved or enjoy life. is what it is, until society changes which is unlikely. You cannot expect society to change around you for the better. YOU are the one that has to make the change. You either adapt or you perish. You have to endure the pain... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lets face it some NTs do want to date an aspie! |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 11:15 pm
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Replies: 37
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| That could be said regarding any category of people. I'm a 5' tall woman - some men find that attractive, some don't. It would be foolish for me to think that everyone should find me attractive. I'm an NT woman married 8 years to an Aspie man. Yes, we have problems at times (black and white thinkin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety Attacks After Last Breakup |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 9:12 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,109
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| Do you feel more empowered and capable after time with her? Or do you feel more obsessive and insecure. I was never the obsessive type (I've dealt with a couple of crazy women, don't need to go down that road again), and I am a firm believer of not forgiving a cheater. Sure, you can try to rekindle... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety Attacks After Last Breakup |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2014, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,109
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| Do you feel like you have closure here? I must ask what the last thing you said to her was? and if you feel like you told her what you needed to say? (in a reasonable and stern way). I'm in my late twenties and I know that when I was 21 or 22 and dealing with women that would do this type of stuff ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety Attacks After Last Breakup |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2014, 4:56 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,109
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| My issue is being too nice and too shy when it comes to dating. I'm so chickenshit to approach anyone and i can't punch the idiot inside my brain that's holding me back. I'm too chickenshit to join a club or activity because there's nothing left in Rochester. I'm too chickenshit to go to clubs and b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety Attacks After Last Breakup |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2014, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,109
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| ^ wtf does this have to do with the topic? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety Attacks After Last Breakup |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2014, 2:33 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,109
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| This last go-around, I found myself in an AS/AS relationship. Sounds like a perfect match (for the men on this forum), right? Wrong. After getting a promotion at my current job, I had received a phone call from her saying that "she wasn't faithful" and had cheated on me with another person. She had ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 29 May 2014, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 219
Views: 15,519
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| Had to read up on a few things before i could tie this to the latest feminist blasts that were waging over social media... This is not a case of someone with just mental issues (as it's seemed to be covered in the news), but more of someone who couldn't get his way by not trying at all and expectin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 29 May 2014, 12:51 am
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Replies: 219
Views: 15,519
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| Had to read up on a few things before i could tie this to the latest feminist blasts that were waging over social media... This is not a case of someone with just mental issues (as it's seemed to be covered in the news), but more of someone who couldn't get his way by not trying at all and expectin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 27 May 2014, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 219
Views: 15,519
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| Had to read up on a few things before i could tie this to the latest feminist blasts that were waging over social media... This is not a case of someone with just mental issues (as it's seemed to be covered in the news), but more of someone who couldn't get his way by not trying at all and expecting... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 591
Views: 39,219
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| Am I the only guy here who didn't read a thing about this guy being diagnosed with Autism? |
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