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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ex-Wife's Wild Behaviour |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2009, 10:02 pm
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| Maybe it's been said before but my interpretation:- She's trying to provoke a reaction from you. It all screams "notice me, notice me, react, be jealous, regretful or SOMETHING". She may be also be trying to compensate for what she might seem as "lost" dating years she missed out on. And took her fe... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How Does it feel to not have friends? |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2009, 5:30 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 10,931
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Willard wrote: I can't say I really miss people all that much. I still cringe when there's a knock at the door. If Domino's delivered sex in thirty minutes or less for fifteen bucks, it would be a perfect world. 
You need to make more effort in conversing with the delivery person then!  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I can't take in too much "information density" |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 8:38 pm
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Replies: 7
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Thanks zeichner!
I think it's a paragraphs thing, I think I mentally link it with a writing style-something like when novelists do "stream of concsiousness" writing, I can't read that either. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you wish you had boyfriend? |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 32
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| I always liked the thinking of another's needs when out shopping, picking up some treat or treasure for them and subtly sneaking it into their lunch sack or leaving it on his pillow. oh yes. Nearly shed a tear of nostalgia at that one. Here's another, when you have had a horrible , exhausting day a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to make more friends on WP |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 8:27 pm
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Replies: 69
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| If you make friends, you lose your anonymity, and this could restrict what you feel comfortable posting about. I guess in the same way you "edit" what you do and don't talk about with real life friends....or maybe that's just me Admittedly, I now live a fairly dull life :( but y'know....wasn't alway... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I can't take in too much "information density" |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 7:13 pm
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| Don't know if it's specifically AS, but I know what you mean. Tip that helped me with dull research papers is to get a spare copy, split the pages up , go through one at a time using another piece of paper to "mask" the upcoming bits of more dullness, and cross out and then throw away the bits I'd r... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How many people have you had sex with? |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 175
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| I must say that I'm disappointed with the number of fellow Aspies who either view sex as a handshake and have had 10 plus partners at a young age .... That comes across as somewhat judgemental and reinforces for me that I should maintain a policy of "don't ask, don't tell". I''m trying to get past ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: would you date a bisexual? |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2009, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 220
Views: 5,028
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Wouldn't put me off someone initially, wouldn't concern me in a relationship, if someone is going to stray they will ANYWAY. Besides, judging by some of the threads here, my past is hardly squeaky clean- something of a surprise to me  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Flying monkeys yes or no? |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2009, 7:44 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,455
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| "fly, my pretties, fly" |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 4,952
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| A forever to be unsent letter to R. There’s a lot that I should have said long ago that wasn’t. Shoulda Woulda Coulda. Constant theme with me. So, the explanation you’ll never see is here. I didn’t actually understand something that happened, decided I must have been to blame or somehow invited what... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What I want my imaginary partner to look like |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 10:31 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Tattoos. Sad and pathetic of me I guess, but there's just something about a good full sleeve....or on calves. ( I can't find an emoticon for fainting!) And sort of old (well-40's -ish) ex skateboarders/bmxers. That probably sums up 90% of my exes. :oops: I suppose I have a "type"....and I'm predicta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Problem with Western Men is.... |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 126
Views: 17,012
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| From what I understand, men vastly outnumber women on internet dating sites. To what can one account this imbalance? Are women much less interested in men than men are in women? If there are equal numbers of men and women looking for each other, then where are the women looking? Or, are most women ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 10:11 pm
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Replies: 35,360
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4 or 5. Sort of middling for the recent low patch which has been going on- hopefully I can start sorting myself out
And I've crept back here....I got stupidly alarmed by what I saw as a lot of misogyny. So I was guilty of overgeneralising too.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie Punk Rockers? |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 10:03 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I guess US Punk Hardcore/crossover was my formative influence....still lingers- as does the 4 bars tattoo (either you know what that is or not as it's kind of embarrassing now) Sooo, name some favourite bands I guess, well Black Flag first and foremost, Gorilla Biscuits, Cro Mags, Bad Religion, Soci... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Hurt and Disappointed |
| Ligea_Seroua |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2009, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 30
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| Ok, well I'm dx'd AS, my son classic Autism. Sorry YOUR feelings were hurt, but just because you have an personal interest in something, does not mean other people have to facilitate that. Without being cruel, how did you expect it to go if the father had responded? He may have written you off as no... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's/HFA artists. |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2009, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,952
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