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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Trust Minus Comfort |
| A_Spock_Darkly |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2010, 9:06 am
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| I've been covertly studying social interactions in hopes of creating my own categorization of the varying types of relationships (the broadest categories obviously being acquaintances/friends/romantic partners). Long-term relationships require: rapport, comfort, trust and connection. Is it possible ... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Batman Forever! |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2010, 7:34 pm
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Replies: 242
Views: 17,662
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| Honestly while it wasn't a true Batman movie I did enjoy it. I believe the majority of hate on it was that it was different in tone than a Batman movie should be and that everybody groups it together with Batman and Robin (Quite possibly the worst movie of all time). IMO it was by no means a great ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Give examples of sh-tests you were put through |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2010, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 138
Views: 12,490
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Dilbert wrote: Google: David DeAngelo scam. Actually that's the first google suggestion when you type in his name. 
He's helped dozens upon dozens of men interact with women. Describe to me how it's a scam, because Google fails to bring up any good reasons to call it such. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Give examples of sh-tests you were put through |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2010, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 138
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| For even more information on what the OP was talking about, I suggest subscribing to David DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating" newsletter. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The direct approach |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2010, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 15
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| What women say they'll respond to, and what they actually DO respond to, are two entirely different things. If you're a guy, never look to women for dating advice. If you're a girl, never look to guys for dating advice. Nonetheless, thank you both for taking the time to share your thoughts on the ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The direct approach |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2010, 1:31 pm
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Replies: 15
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| You're an exception, not the rule. Perhaps it's the eye contact and body language backing me up when I go in for a handshake, but I've had a lot of luck with it. Quick physical contact allows for easier escalation (handshake -> hug -> holding hands -> rubbing arm/shoulder -> kiss). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The direct approach |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2010, 1:27 pm
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Replies: 15
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| Handshakes are great for that initial kino (kino = touch). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The direct approach |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2010, 1:23 pm
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Replies: 15
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| Prelimenaries: Proper Unwavering Eye Contact Dressed In A Socially Acceptable Manner Proper Body Language Go Out Find Girl Approach Girl (from front or diagonal front, so she can see you coming. You don't want to sneak up on women, that's just creepy). "Hey. I had to come over for a minute and intro... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2010, 11:34 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 11,074
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| Semantics. When they're not obnoxious, they're still loud and very much extroverted. It's an internalized trait that you can never fake as good as them. That was more a joke than anything. Hey, if you believe Alpha Males have to have one personality type, that's okay. I'm not going to be convinced ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 3:52 am
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Replies: 42
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| Dude. It's. A. f***ing. Movie. I've never seen introverted alpha males. They're ALWAYS loud, obnoxious and quite obviously extroverted. You seem to be mistaking Alpha Male for his cousin The Jackass. Read this. That is a clever response, but I was referring to one's inability to permanently change ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 42
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| Try to stop doing it, and see what happens, whether positive or negative. Obviously, negative, because at one point I was not doing them, and it took a lot of work for me to learn them. Duh. Then excellent, you admit openly to its positive aspects. My point is, it does not magically make me into an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 7:05 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 11,074
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| You're right in that people tend to automatically have more respect for those with good posture. They believe right off the bat that you have the means to take them down if you mess with them. As soon as I began using Alpha Male body language, interacting with women became much easier, and they bega... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 6:41 pm
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| Well to hell with me for trying. That's not "alpha male body language", those are simply tips on how to look normal and project the same "shields" as normal people, so you don't get trampled either verbally or physically. I already do all those things described, but I still can't yell over people at... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: BPD troubles =( |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 1:22 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Well, I've been reading the websites about BPD, and so far I've been doing pretty well...but... Anyway, there's this girl that I'm pretty sure has it...one day she would think she was completely in love with me (which she didn't mind dropping that word after only knowing me a few days) and then the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 1:04 pm
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Replies: 42
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| This thread is for discussing tips that help enhance your social status through body language. A lot of NT's have to learn these things manually also, surprisingly enough. Alpha Male paradigm comes mostly from within, but that's not to say that external improvements can't help that inner transformat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirt & Eyes Contact |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 12:32 pm
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Replies: 40
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| Hi Everybody ! !! One thing I really hate (from me) is: when I see a woman I like, I use to watch her eyes. But when She realizes I'm watching her, and she looks at me, I feel, like fear, and move my gaze away. Someone could tell me what should I do if I like the woman ? I guess I should keep seein... |
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