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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Comprehensive 'Dating Websites' Thread #1 |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 15 Jul 2009, 9:40 pm
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Also most dating sites let you have a bit of a look around at the profiles before you decide to join, so that's always a good thing to do. Check out whether the site has profiles that are in your age range, or are there ways to search by common interests? A good test of a website is to join up (most... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Comprehensive 'Dating Websites' Thread #1 |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 15 Jul 2009, 9:23 pm
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That sounds good, but can you give a few more details? Is it upfront, or over the course of multiple emails and chats? It really sounds worth checking into, if there are in fact non-sleazy pay-sites. Initially you receive any emails to your rsvp account, and you get one month to send messages back ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Comprehensive 'Dating Websites' Thread #1 |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 15 Jul 2009, 2:15 am
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Does anyone have a particular website to suggest? Perhaps more advice? I would recommend using a website that's relatively local (ie. specifically in your state or country). I would guess that the international ones are a bit dodgy. I wouldn't use one that was totally free as they just tend to attr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Comprehensive 'Dating Websites' Thread #1 |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 13 Jul 2009, 1:42 am
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just some advice for those using dating websites * Photos to use: Try and use a nice photo (one in which you are smiling) for the primary photo. Can also include some sillier photos if that suits your personality. * Photos not to use: anything that makes you look like an emotional wreck/serial kille... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: PDA |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 12 Jul 2009, 10:33 pm
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I don't like them, but that's just how I feel (I know I have issues with affection). I don't expect everyone else in the world to agree or stop showing affection in public. I've always been uncomfortable if I have had a partner try to kiss, cuddle, hold hands or anything like that in front of other ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Profile help |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 12 Jul 2009, 8:24 pm
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Overall, I liked your profile, it's quirky and funny. my suggestions are * change the primary profile photo to either the one of you hugging a snowman or the one where you are wearing a blue t-shirt. Better to have a profile photo where you are smiling, good natured & quirky is a better first im... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: seeing psychiatrist today |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 10 Jul 2009, 2:30 am
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that's great that the psychiatrist was able to help! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Foibles...tics..bohersome habits...put to rest |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 09 Jul 2009, 8:50 pm
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deleted post. (having one of those days) |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: seeing psychiatrist today |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 09 Jul 2009, 8:09 pm
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Good luck! Hope it goes well! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A "radical" new autism spectrum disorder theory |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 09 Jul 2009, 12:18 am
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This article really strikes a chord because of recent happenings in my life. When my physically disabled friend was raped I was so distraught and upset that I was an emotional wreck for a couple weeks, and constantly worrying about her, making sure she was OK, etc. :cry: Odin - I'm so sorry about y... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Stereotypy and nonsense movements you do |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 08 Jul 2009, 1:41 am
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I'm not sure what other people mean when they talk about "flapping"....that makes me think of arms stretched out to your sides and flapping up & down like a bird? I don't do that but if I'm frustrated at something then I'll flap my hands/forearms up & down, in front of me. ...kind of like I... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Stereotypy and nonsense movements you do |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 07 Jul 2009, 10:04 pm
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Random stretches (This strikes my friends as odd) Random exercises (Again this strikes my friends as odd) Pulling on my skin (around my neck is one place I generally do it, I do it elsewhere though as well, this bothers people) Rubbing my chin Finger-tapping I can be rather random to people, I have... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Embarrassing Spacing Out Moments |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 07 Jul 2009, 9:14 pm
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I did that once while walking and walked right into a plate glass room divider. Left a nose print on it and everything. Yes, people who witnessed it were shaking their heads in wonder. I space out all the time...also don't notice doors/trees/lamp posts and am forever walking into things....one of m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: discovery criteria-Tony Attwood /Carol Gray |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 07 Jul 2009, 8:51 pm
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Thank you Linder1980 - It's worth reading-some time ago I printed a copy and gave it to my son's school Thanks, I printed it out too but have only skim read it at this stage. It has some great information for parents/teachers on how to give praise to an aspie child, now it makes sense to me that I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: discovery criteria-Tony Attwood /Carol Gray |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 07 Jul 2009, 8:29 pm
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What stresses you out the most about your autism? |
Linder1980 |
Posted: 07 Jul 2009, 4:12 am
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my understanding can get as bad as like for example, i wanted some honey so i instantly know from memory everything has to be in same place or its lost in my mind lol, so i try to pour it in that plate in front of me, wont come out i get upset and start headbanging, i need soembody to come over and... |
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