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Forum: The Haven Topic: I just need to cheer up |
CDRhom |
Posted: 08 Aug 2009, 10:37 am
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Close Call with my Rent check almost made me freak out! |
CDRhom |
Posted: 08 Aug 2009, 10:25 am
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In my experiance most folks are cool with it, if it is a one time event. They really don't even remember that it happened unless it becomes a regular problem. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: 1001 Things Not To Do Around NTs... |
CDRhom |
Posted: 08 Aug 2009, 10:17 am
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Say "hello" without appending their name. Everytime. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I build a new routine? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 08 Aug 2009, 10:12 am
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Update, because I've made some progress. Keeping track of what I did may help me next time, or may help someone else. Just having to lay it out like this is probably an indication of how differently I have approach problems from NT's. In my experiance most people are able to do these things without ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Two more friends for my husband... zero for me. |
CDRhom |
Posted: 08 Aug 2009, 9:53 am
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I totally understand, as my ex was the same way. Fortunately he was good about explaining how he got people to respond to him and paitent with my meltdowns. How did your hubby react to your meltdown? Was he suppotrive. That helps a lot. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Transgender and Asperger's |
CDRhom |
Posted: 05 Aug 2009, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 258
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I found myself pondering if the number of Aspies who are tg adjusts to the general Aspie population gender distrubution. I.E. a higher proportion of FTMs are Apie than an equal number of MTFs. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need a Hug. My stepdads fish died. :( |
CDRhom |
Posted: 04 Aug 2009, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 12 Views: 1,956
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do i deal with berievement and ultimate sadness? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 02 Aug 2009, 7:06 pm
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Disorganization is the hardest one for me. I start to do something then get distracted and pretty soon nothing gets done. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do i deal with berievement and ultimate sadness? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 02 Aug 2009, 8:03 am
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Don't let anyone make you feel bad by saying you should be over it because x amount of time has passed. Everyone greves at their own pace. That being said, make yourself aware of the stages of grief. Most people simply progress through them, but it's completely OK to skip one or go back to one breif... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The passing of a friend... |
CDRhom |
Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 1,884
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Deepest condolences. I'm sure she will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I build a new routine? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 6:03 pm
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Replies: 5 Views: 1,155
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Thnaks. I have recently taken up the Bass guitar and have thrown myself at it with an enthusiasum I haven't expressed since my middle school horse period. :) I tend to need events to form routines around. Like Tomasu, College was difficult because the classes changed every 10 weeks, but the act of d... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why does everyone always have to think it's sexual? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 3:27 pm
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Sadly, the root of the problem is usually that mean, suspicious people see people doing bad things everywhere, and that most people think that everyone thinks like them (and some of them think some pretty awful things). Sorry it turned out like this. The kids probably needed someone like you in thei... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I build a new routine? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 1:22 pm
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Replies: 5 Views: 1,155
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Due to some unplanned life changes I find myself completly on my own for the first time ever and it has created a problem. Like a lot of us I need a routine to get through my day, but until now I never realized how much I had depended on the people around me to frame that routine. Of course when I l... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: What was the first Video Game you played? |
CDRhom |
Posted: 21 May 2008, 9:50 pm
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Ascii Star Trek on the Michigan Tech Mainframe.
I'd won two weeks at college engineering camp for first place in my Jr. High science fair, and was immediately entranced by the computers. |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Descibe the first word that you think of for Smoking |
CDRhom |
Posted: 21 May 2008, 9:42 pm
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Replies: 84 Views: 13,260
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Beetle Juice
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Imagine yourself without your job but |
CDRhom |
Posted: 12 Nov 2006, 10:57 am
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I did my first job for 22 years and when it became stale, went back to school, got a different job in a different field and I love it. I confess I'm planning on what I will major in 20 years from now for my next job.
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