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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does dating get harder for a women after 30? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2010, 10:53 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 14,179
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| I was married in my 20's and 30's, so I can't really compare now to then as far as dating is concerned. But once I got past the post-divorce blues, I found that dating wasn't nearly as difficult as I thought it would be. Men approach me fairly regularly now, whereas they avoided me like the plague ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie guys and flakiness in relationships |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2010, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 5,453
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Pistonhead wrote: As an aspie guy I don't think we're flaky. Immature, confused and commitment fearing people (NTs or otherwise) behave that way.
+1
Being an aspie has nothing to do with it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girl, Four years younger than me is it a no-go? |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2010, 10:35 pm
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Replies: 87
Views: 12,920
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| Jesus, when I think of a 13 year old girl, I have to wonder, does she still play with dolls? Does she still have baby teeth? She is a baby to me. Some girls at that age might think they're more mature, but reality soon bites them in the ass. Of course the consensus among certain males here who are o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: simple defination of autism |
| spooky13 |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2010, 6:55 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,625
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tenzinsmom wrote: I asked Tenzin, who just turned 7, what he thinks autism means.
He said, "It means you have to practice more."
I rather like that.
I like that too.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Should having friends be a "fundamental right"? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2010, 6:53 pm
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Replies: 64
Views: 4,672
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| Ok, so if something is wrong with your body, a person has the right to go see a doctor (I guess this is only totally true for universal healthcare) and see whats wrong. If a person is depressed and they feel that talking to someone would make them feel better why don't they have the right to a set ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I am sick and tired of this. |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2010, 7:51 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,102
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I do that as well. I can go from being happy and positive to angry, depressed, and lashing out in a heartbeat. It actually feels, to me at least, like I've got two personalities.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: errmmm. I dont like her |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2010, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,306
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| I dont know what to do This girl keeps hitting on me and I dont like her and its wierd. I try to be nice and honest but i dont know how to be nice and honest when the truth isn't that nice. and then she asks me if I think shes cute. I think shes cute so I say so. and then she starts talking about s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pissing people off |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2010, 9:55 am
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Replies: 22
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hale_bopp wrote: I find its much easier to piss people off than get them to like me, it comes naturally, whereas getting them to like me takes an effort.
I'm the same way. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Stand back, Crazy Lady Enters Room |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2010, 9:28 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,356
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| lol, I call myself the Crazy Lady too. (I'm assuming you're using it in a semi-jokative fashion) You're more normal then the people you've just listed though, stealing/lying/b****ing are not socially acceptable behaviours. As long as you keep strong and keep on calling these people out, you'll be s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Too Clingy? |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2010, 9:16 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 10,385
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Chronos wrote: No.
I hate clingy. I also hate passive clingy.
Same here, I like my space. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My parents are pure evil. Are they really? |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2010, 10:21 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 4,141
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| As someone who had parents that abused me in every way possible, when they weren't they neglected me and my sisters and left me on my own to raise my sisters at age 13, most of the time hungry and a couple steps away from becoming homeless, l have little pity for you. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How hard is it to lucid dream for aspies? |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2010, 8:54 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 6,251
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| Sometime I can get control in my dreams, it's a hit or miss deal with me, lol! Does anyone else have dreams so vivid and realistic ( to an extent ) that when you wake up, it actually feels like you were ripped from one reality into another? I do. It's enough to make me question what "reality" is at ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are your concepts about the world seen as weird/eccentric? |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2010, 8:50 am
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Replies: 14
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| Definitely. They way I see people, how they live, act, and how the world looks is strange in my mind. Plus having synesthesia, it's even weirder. I actually thought everyone saw things (the synesthesia part) the same way, colors, etc. until a few years ago. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Feeling sick after orgasm? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 10:18 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 460
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| All you need to do is call them, they'll tell you what you need to know regarding the insurance. Regardless of your periods, you should at least get a check-up done. It's not that it's lying to your mom, in fact your mom should understand that at your age you should have an exam to make sure you're ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Are you/were you a late bloomer? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 10:06 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,419
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| Socially, yes. When I was in my teens, seeing how pretty and popular some girls were in school made me feel like crap. However, I came into my own, so to speak, in my twenties and even now in my forties, I look and feel good about myself. Those pretty popular girls had reached the height of their lo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to order a pizza? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 9:55 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,190
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| Just say that you'd like to order a pizza and tell them which pizza you want from the menu? You could always do it online though, easy. Yeah I guess, but I don't know in what order I have to say things and how fast, I need to give them my address and such. I'm ordering from a newly established take... |
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